If you have noticed a guy looking at you then you might be wondering whether or not he is interested in you.

This post will help you understand whether or not he is into you and whether or not other guys might be interested in you if they look at you in the future.

Below, I will mention a number of signs that a guy will show when he is interested in you.

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Pointing his feet at you

The feet can actually tell you a lot about how a person is feeling. People learn ways to control the emotions that they are showing with their faces but they rarely think about what their feet might be showing.

People will tend to point their feet in the direction that they are most interested in. This means if you notice that he points his feet at you even when you are to his side then it would be a sign that he is attracted to you.

Mirroring your body language

When a person is trying to fit in with a certain group of people he/she will actually begin to mirror their behavior. This is because it will help him/her get accepted into the group more easily.

If you notice that he mirrors your body language where he matches your body language when he sees you then it would be a sign of attraction.

There are a number of ways that he could mirror your body language but some examples could include things such as:

  • Standing or sitting with the same stance as you
  • Mirroring your hand gestures
  • Mirroring your smile
  • Mirroring your facial gestures

Having more dilated pupils

When a person is looking at someone that they are interested in it will cause their pupils to become more dilated than normal.

This means that if you notice that his pupils tend to be more dilated when he looks at you then it would be a sign that he is interested in you.

Smiling at you

If you notice that he smiles at you when looking at you then it would be a sign that he is interested in you.

However, he might also smile at you because he is being polite. It would be necessary to see other body language signs of attraction to be confident that he is interested in you.

Quickly looking away

If he quickly looks away when you notice him looking at you then it would be a sign that she is interested in you. This is because it would imply that he was checking you out and he didn’t want you to notice.

However, there are also a number of other reasons that he might look at you then quickly look away such as thinking that you were looking at him, he was looking at you randomly or he might have actually been annoyed with you. This is why it is important to see multiple body language signs of attraction to be confident that he is attracted to you.

Holding eye contact before looking away

If he holds eye contact with you before looking away then it would be a sign that he is interested in you. This would be particularly likely if he also smiles at you when doing it and if he shows other signs of attraction as well.

Looking at you repeatedly

If he just looks at you once then it would be more difficult to tell whether or not he is interested in you since he might have looked at you due to chance.

However, if he looks at you repeatedly and he does it even after you have moved from where you are currently standing or sitting then it would be more likely that he is interested in you.

Adjusting his appearance when he sees you

If he is interested in you then it would be likely that he would want to look good in front of you. This means that if you notice that he quickly adjusts his appearance when he notices you then it would be a sign that he is interested in you. He could adjust his appearance by doing things such as adjusting his shirt, tie, pants or he might adjust his hair when he sees you.

Sitting or standing more upright when he sees you

Another way that he might adjust his appearance when he sees you is by sitting or standing with a straighter posture when he sees you. This is because slouching is generally considered an unattractive thing to do and it would be likely that he would want to avoid you seeing him slouching.

Uncrossing his arms when he sees you

If he is interested in you then he would probably want to appear to be more approachable when he is around you. One way that he might make himself appear to be more approachable is by uncrossing his arms when he sees you.

Positioning himself to be nearer to you

People will often position themselves to be closer to people that they are attracted to.

If you notice that he tends to position himself to be nearer to you then it would be a sign that he is attracted to you.

Watching you when you’re with other men

If he is interested in you then it would be likely that he would not want you to be with other men.

This means that if you notice that he tends to watch you when you’re with other men, get anxious when you’re with other men and he tends to stick around when you’re with them then it would be a sign that he is interested in you.

Laughing and looking to see if you’re also laughing

If he is interested in you then it would be likely that he would want to appear to be interested in similar things as you.

This means that if you notice that he tends to look at you when laughing then it would imply that he is interested in you since he wants to see if you also found it to be funny.

Signs to look for if you talk to him

If you talk to him and he is interested in you then it would be likely that he would show a number of other signs of being interested in you.

Asking you the most questions

If you notice that he tends to ask you the most questions when you are in a group together then it would imply that he is interested in you.

Likewise, if he tends to ask you lots of questions when talking to you and he tries to continue the conversation then it would also imply that he is interested in you.

Touching you a lot

If he is interested in you then it would be likely that he would want to touch you. If you notice that he tends to touch you a lot when you’re with him or he makes excuses to touch you then it would be likely that he is interested in you.

Keeping his focus on you when multiple people are talking

If he is interested in you then it would be likely that he would be interested in what you have to say. If you notice that he tends to keep his focus on you when there are other people talking then it would be a sign that he is attracted to you.

Standing closer to you than he does with other people

When a person is with someone that they are attracted to it is common that they will stand closer to that person when talking to them.

This means that if you notice that he tends to stand closer to you when talking to you than he does with other people then it would be a sign that he is interested in you.

Touching your feet with his feet

As mentioned earlier, people will often give away their true feelings with what they do with their feet.

If you notice that he touches your feet with his feet, when he is sat down with you, then it would imply that he is interested in you.

Holding prolonged eye contact with you

When couples are attracted to each other they will often begin to do something known as mutual gazing which is where they hold eye contact with each other for longer than usual.

If you notice that he tends to hold eye contact with you for longer than normal, when he looks at you, then it would imply that he is interested in you.

A change in vocal tone

It has been shown that men will talk with a deeper voice when they are with a woman that they are attracted to. It was also found that they will occasionally talk with a higher pitch as well. This is possibly because talking with a deeper voice implies that he is abundant in testosterone and going higher-pitched, at times, allows him to show that he is not a threat.

If you notice that he tends to talk to you with a deeper voice and he occasionally says things with a higher pitch then it would imply that he is interested in you.

Showing signs of nervousness

If he is attracted to you then it might cause him to become nervous when he is talking to you because he wants to make a good impression on you.

He could show nervousness in a number of ways but some examples could include doing things such as:

  • Rubbing his eyes, face, neck or legs
  • Blinking more frequently
  • Fidgeting
  • Tapping his fingers and feet

Think about the way that he reacts to seeing you

If he is interested in you then it would be likely that he would change his body language and behavior when he sees you.

If you notice that he tends to react to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Raising his eyebrows
  • Smiling
  • Adjusting his appearance
  • Having more dilated pupils
  • Sitting or standing more upright
  • Uncrossing his arms
  • Pointing his feet at you

Then it would be much more likely that he is interested in you.

Look for multiple body language signs

When considering what his body language might be telling you it is important to look for clusters of signs. This means that you should look for signs of attraction that occur concurrently.

This is because he could be showing a single sign of attraction for reasons other than being attracted to you. This means that it would be difficult to accurately tell whether or not he is interested in you based on if he shows a single sign of attraction.

Whereas, if he shows multiple signs of attraction then it would be more likely that he is showing them due to being attracted to you.

Consider his normal body language

When trying to understand the way that he feels about you it would be helpful to consider what his normal body language is like.

If he tends to interact with other people in the same way as he does with you and he shows the same body language around them then it would be less likely that he is interested in you.

Whereas, if he tends to show different body language and behavior when he is with you then it would be more likely that he is interested in you assuming that he changes it in a way that suggests interest.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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