If you have noticed a girl looking at you then you’re probably wondering whether or not she is interested in you.

This post will help you understand whether or not she is interested in you and whether or not other girls might be interested in you when they look at you in the future.

Below, I will mention a number of signs that a girl will show you in her body language and behavior when she is looking at you.

Pointing her feet at you

The feet can actually tell you a lot about the way that a person feels. People learn ways to control the emotions that they are showing with their faces but they rarely think about what their feet might be suggesting.

People will tend to point their feet in the direction that they are most interested in. This means that if she points her feet at you when she first notices you and when she is around you even if she is to your side then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

Brushing her hair to the side

One way that women will often show attraction is by brushing their hair to the side so that you can see her neck. This shows attraction because exposing the vulnerable areas such as the palms or neck is a sign of vulnerability and suggests that she is being submissive which is a sign of attraction in women.

This means that if she flicks her hair to the side when she sees you or while she is looking at you then it would suggest that she is attracted to you.

Showing you her palms

Another way that a woman might show her vulnerable areas is by showing her palms.

If you notice that she plays with her hair with her palms facing you or she rubs her palms while looking at you then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

Stroking her hair

If she plays with her hair or she strokes her hair while looking at you then it would be a sign of attraction.

It has been shown that men perceive long-haired women to be healthier. So, the reason that she plays with her hair while looking at you could be to draw your attention to it and to increase your level of attraction for her.

Mirroring your body language

When a person wants to get accepted by a certain group of people he or she will often begin to mirror their behavior and body language.

If she mirrors your body language then it could be a sign that she is interested in you and that she wants to talk to you. There are many ways that she might mirror your body language but examples could include:

  • Standing with a similar stance as you
  • Mirroring your hand gestures
  • Mirroring your facial gestures

Having more dilated pupils

When a person is around another person that he/she is attracted to it will actually cause their pupils to dilate.

If you notice that she tends to have more dilated pupils than normal when looking at you then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

Smiling at you

If she smiles at you when looking at you it would be a sign that she is attracted to you. It would also be a sign that she wants to talk to you. However, it could also be the case that she was being polite so it would help to see other body language signs of attraction to be sure.

Quickly looking away

If she quickly looks away when you notice her looking at you then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you since it suggests that she was checking you out and she didn’t want you to notice.

There are other reasons why she might have looked away such as that she thought you were looking at her, she was just looking at you randomly or that she was actually annoyed with you. So, again, it would be helpful to see other body language signs of attraction to be sure that she was looking at you due to being attracted to you.

Holding eye contact before looking away

If she holds eye contact with you for longer than usual when you notice her looking at you then it would be a sign that she wants to talk to you assuming that she also showed other signs of attraction. It would be particularly likely if she also smiled and played with her hair while looking at you.

Looking at you repeatedly

If you notice her looking at you once then it would be a less reliable sign that she is attracted to you since it could have just happened by chance.

Whereas, if she repeatedly looks at you then it would be more likely that she is doing it due to being attracted to you. That is assuming that she shows signs of attraction to you and not signs of something else such as being annoyed with you.

Adjusting her appearance when she notices you

If she is interested in you then it would be likely that she would want to look good in front of you.

This means that if you notice that she adjusts her appearance when she is around you then it would be a sign of attraction. She could adjust her appearance by adjusting her clothing, hair or her makeup.

Sitting or standing more upright when she notices you

Another way that she might adjust her appearance so that she appears more attractive could be by sitting or standing with a more upright posture when she notices you. This is because slouching is generally considered an undesirable thing to do so, if she’s attracted to you, it would be unlikely that she’d want you to see her slouching.

Uncrossing her arms when she notices you

She could also adjust her appearance by uncrossing her arms when she sees you. She might do this because she wants to appear to be more open and approachable around you and it would be a sign that she wants to talk to you.

Positioning herself to be nearer to you

People will often position themselves to be nearer to a person that they are attracted to.

If you notice that she tends to position herself to be nearer to you then it would be a sign that she is interested in you.

Watching you when you’re with other girls

If she is interested in you then it would be likely that she would not want you to have sexual relations with other girls.

This means that if you notice that she watches you when you’re with other girls and she sticks around while you are then it would be a sign that she is interested in you.

Giggling with her friends while looking at you

A sign of attraction that girls will often give when they are in a group is that they will giggle when looking at a man that they are attracted to.

If you notice that she will sometimes giggle with her friend when looking at you then it could be a sign that she is attracted to you. This would be especially likely if she combines it with other things such as tossing the hair to the side, pointing her feet at you and looking at you repeatedly.

Some guys will get nervous when they notice girls giggling when looking at them but it can actually be a sign of attraction provided they also show attraction in other ways.

Laughing and looking to see if you are laughing as well

If she is interested in you then it would be likely that she would want you to feel like you are both operating on the same wavelength.

This is one reason why if she looks at you when laughing then it would be a sign that she is interested in you.

Other things to look for if you talk to her

If she is interested in you then it would also be likely that she would show a number of signs of attraction when talking to you as well.

Asking you the most questions

If you notice that she asks you the most questions when you are in a group together then it would suggest that she is interested in you and she wants to get to know you. It would also be the case if she asks you lots of questions when you’re alone together since it suggests that she wants to continue the conversation and to get to know you more.

Touching you a lot

If she is interested in you then it would be likely that she would want to touch you. If you notice that she touches you a lot and she makes excuses to touch you then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

Keeping her focus on you when there are multiple people talking

If you notice that she keeps her focus on you when there are multiple people talking then it would suggest that she is interested in you and she wants to get to know you better.

Standing closer to you than she does with other people

When people are with a person that they are attracted to they will often stand closer to them than they do with other people when talking to them.

If you notice that she tends to stand closer to you when talking to you than she does with other people then it would be likely that she is attracted to you. This would be especially likely if she also touches you a lot and plays with her hair while talking to you.

Touching your feet with her feet

As mentioned earlier people will often give away their true feelings with what they do with their feet.

If you notice that she tends to touch your feet with her feet while she is with you then it would be a sign that she is interested in you.

Holding prolonged eye contact

When two people are attracted to each other they will begin to engage in mutual gazing which is basically where they hold eye contact with each other for longer than they would hold eye contact with other people.

If you notice that she tends to hold eye contact with you for longer than normal when talking to you then it would be more likely that she is attracted to you. This would be especially likely if she also has more dilated pupils than normal while holding eye contact with you.

A change in vocal tone

It has been shown that women will talk to men that they are attracted to with a higher-pitched voice than when they are talking to men that they are not attracted to.

This means that if you notice that she tends to talk to you with a higher-pitched voice then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

Showing signs of nervousness

If she is interested in you then she might show signs of being nervous when talking to you because she wants to make a good impression on you.

She could show signs of nervousness by doing things such as:

  • Rubbing her arms, neck, legs or face
  • Blinking more frequently
  • Talking with a higher pitch towards the ends of sentences
  • Fidgeting
  • Tapping her fingers or feet

If she shows signs of nervousness while talking to you and she also shows signs of attraction then it would be likely that she wants to make a good impression on you but it’s causing her to be slightly anxious.

Tilting her head while talking to you

As mentioned earlier showing the vulnerable areas can be a sign of attraction from a woman.

This means that if you notice that she tilts her head to the side when talking to you then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you. It is also a sign that she is attracted to you because it causes her release pheromones when she does it that can increase the feelings of attraction from the man she’s talking to.

Consider the way that she reacts to seeing you

When trying to understand if she is interested in you it would be helpful to consider the way that she reacts when seeing you.

If she reacts by changing her body language and behavior when she sees you then it would be a sign that she has good or bad feelings about you.

If she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Mirroring your body language
  • Raising her eyebrows
  • Smiling
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Holding eye contact
  • Having more dilated pupils

Then it would be a lot more likely that she is interested in you.

Look for multiple signs in her body language

When trying to understand whether or not she is interested in you when she looks at you it would help to consider multiple aspects of her body language at a time.

She could be showing a single body language sign for many different reasons making it much more difficult to accurately tell whether or not she is interested in you.

Whereas, if she shows multiple signs of attraction in her body language then it would be much more likely that she really is attracted to you.

Consider the way that she interacts with other people

When trying to understand whether or not she is interested in you it would be helpful to compare the way that she interacts with you with how she interacts with others.

If she shows the same body language when she is around you as she does when she is not then it would be less likely that she is interested in you.

Whereas, if she shows different body language when she is around you then it would be more likely that she is interested in you assuming that she changes it in a way that suggests attraction.

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