If a girl recently took a selfie with you then you might be wondering why and what it might mean about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you a number of reasons why she will take a selfie with you and why other girls might do the same in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl takes a selfie with you? It could be a sign that she is attracted to you which would be more likely if she shows other signs of attraction around you. She might also do it because she considers you a friend which would be more likely if she also does it with her other friends.

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Since she might have taken a selfie with you for a number of different reasons it would help to consider the way that she did it and the body language that she showed.

Why a girl will take a selfie with you

Each of the different reasons why she took a selfie with you will likely come with a number of clues in the way that she did it and in the body language that she showed.

In the following sections, I will mention a number of reasons why a girl will take a selfie with you, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She is attracted to you

The reason that she did it with you could be that she is attracted to you.

This would be more likely if she only did it with you, if her friends talk to you about her and if she shows interest in you when she is around you.

If she did take the selfie with you because she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction when she is around you.

These signs could include:

  • Brushing her hair to the side when she is around you
  • Stroking her hair while talking to you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Positioning herself to be near you
  • Standing closer to you than she does with other people
  • Asking you lots of questions and giving you the most attention
  • Talking to you with a higher pitch than she does with other people
  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you
  • Laughing and looking to see if you are also laughing
  • Giggling a lot at the things that you say
  • Tilting her head while talking to you
  • Glancing at you a lot
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Looking at you with her friends and giggling

She considers you a friend

The reason that she took a selfie with you could be that she considers you a friend.

This would be more likely if she also takes selfies with her other friends, if she shows the same body language around them as she does with you and if she doesn’t show many signs of attraction around you.

She was trying to make another guy jealous

The reason that she took a picture with you could have been that it was meant to make another guy jealous.

This would be much more likely if she sent it to another guy that she tends to hang out with and show interest in. It would also be more likely if she doesn’t normally show many signs of attraction to you or if she only does when a certain guy is around.

Consider the way that she reacts to seeing you

When trying to understand why she took the selfie with you it would help to consider the way that she reacts to seeing you.

If she reacts to seeing you by noticeably showing signs of attraction then it would make it more likely that she took the selfie with you due to being attracted to you.

So, if she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Straightening her posture, smiling and uncrossing her arms
  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Positioning herself to be nearer to you
  • Pointing her feet at you

Then it would be more likely that she did it due to being attracted to you.

Consider your relationship with her

It would also help to consider the type of relationship that you have with her.

If she has been your friend for a while then it would be more likely that she did it due to considering you a friend.

Whereas, if you hadn’t known her for very long then it would make it more likely that she either did it due to being attracted to you or trying to make another guy jealous.

Think about how she interacts with others

It would also help to compare the way that she interacts with you with how she interacts with other people.

If she also takes selfies with her other friends a lot and she shows the same body language around them as with you then it would be much more likely that she did it due to considering you a friend.

Whereas, if she doesn’t take many selfies with her male friends and she shows signs of attraction, that she doesn’t around other people, then it would be more likely that she was showing attraction to you.

Look for a number of signs in her body language

When considering what her body language could have been suggesting it would help to consider multiple aspects of it at a time.

If she was just showing a single body language sign of something then it would be less reliable since single body language signs can have multiple different meanings.

Whereas, if she was showing multiple signs that all suggested the same thing then it would be more likely that she was showing them for that reason.

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Why would a girl take a picture with you? If she only did it with you then it would be a sign that she likes you especially if she shows other signs of attraction around you. If she also did it with other people then it would be more likely that she did it as a friend.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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