If a girl recently texted you out of the blue then you might be wondering why and what it might mean about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you a number of reasons why she might have done it and why other girls might text you out of the blue as well.

So, why would a girl text you out of the blue? It could be a sign that she likes you especially if she texts you in the evening, she wants to hang out and if she shows signs of attraction around you. She might also consider you a friend, have been feeling sad or she might have wanted something from you.

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Since there are a number of reasons why a girl might text you out of the blue it would be helpful to consider what she texted you and the body language that she shows around you.

Why a girl will text you out of the blue

Each of the different reasons why she texted you out of the blue will likely come with a number of clues in the way that she did it and in the body language that she showed when she was around you.

In the following sections, I will mention a number of reasons why she might have texted you out of the blue, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She likes you

The reason that she texted you out of the blue could be that she is like you.

This would be more likely if she wanted to hang out with you, if she texted you in the evening, if she texted you something sexual or if she texted you after not having seen her for a long time. If she texted you something random then it could still be the case that she did it because she likes you and it would help to consider how she interacts with you in person.

If she did text you because she likes you then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction, in her body language, when she is around you.

These signs could include:

  • Brushing her hair to the side when she is around you
  • Stroking her hair while talking to you
  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Having more dilated pupils than usual when she is with you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Standing close to you
  • Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
  • Talking to you with a higher-pitched voice than she does with other people
  • Laughing and looking to see if you are also laughing
  • Laughing a lot at the things that you say
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Tilting her head while talking to you

She considers you a friend

The reason that she texted you out of the blue could be that she considers you a friend.

This would be more likely if you used to text each other a lot but you stopped for some reason. It would also be more likely if she shows the same body language around you as she does with her other friends and if she doesn’t show many signs of attraction around you.

She was feeling sad

The reason that she did it could be that she was feeling sad at the time.

This would be more likely if she texted you something that she might have felt sad about. It would also be more likely if she was showing signs of being sad when you saw her last. Signs of being sad could have included having watery eyes, talking less, having a flat speech tone, slouching, looking down a lot and drooping of the body.

She wanted something from you

It could be the case that she wanted something from you.

This would be more likely if she asked you for something when she texted you and if she only seems to show interest in you when she wants things from you.

Consider your relationship with her

When trying to understand why she texted you out of the blue it would help to consider the type of relationship that you have with her.

If she has been your friend for a while or you used to be close friends with her then it would make it more likely that she did it because she considers you a friend. However, she still might have done it for one of the other reasons mentioned above so it would help to consider what she texted you and the body language that she showed around you.

If she is a girl that you didn’t know very well then it would be more likely that she either did it due to being attracted to you or wanting something from you. It would help to consider what she texted you.

Consider when she texted you

Considering when she texted you could help in understanding why she did it.

If she texted you in the evening or after having not seen you for a long time then it would be more likely that she likes you or that she used to.

If she texted you during the day then it would make it more likely that she did it because she wanted something from you especially if she asked for something.

Consider what she texted you

It would also help to consider what she texted you.

If she texted you something sexual in nature, she texted you saying that she wanted to hang out with you or if she was saying that she misses you then it would be more likely that she was showing that she still likes you.

Consider how she reacts to seeing you

It would also help to consider how she tends to react to seeing you when trying to understand why she texted you out of the blue.

If she tends to react to seeing you by noticeably changing her body language then it would make it more likely that she did it due to being attracted to you.

That is assuming that she reacts to seeing you in a way that shows attraction by doing things such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Straightening her posture and uncrossing her arms
  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Holding eye contact with you

Look for a cluster of signs

When considering what her body language could have been suggesting it would be helpful to consider multiple body language signs at the same time.

This is because she could have been showing a single body language sign for multiple different reasons. This makes single body language signs unreliable on their own.

Whereas, if she was showing multiple body language signs that all suggested the same thing then it would be more likely that she was showing them for that reason.

Related

Why would a girl text me after a long time? It could be the case that she used to like you which would be more likely if she wanted to hang out or if she texted you something sexual. She might also have done it because she considered you a friend or because she wanted something from you.

Why would a girl text me out of nowhere? It might be because she is attracted to you which would be more likely if she shows signs of attraction around you, she wanted to hang out with you or if she texted you something sexual. She might also have wanted something from you or have considered you a friend.

Why would a girl text you months later? She might have been attracted to you which would be more likely if she used to show signs of attraction around you and if she wanted to hang out with you. She might also have wanted something from you or have considered you a friend.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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