If a certain guy never asks you questions then you might be wondering why and what it might mean about the way that he feels about you.

This post will show you a number of reasons why he might never ask you questions and why other guys might do the same in the future.

So, what does it mean when a guy never asks you questions? It could be that he is attracted to you but nervous if he also shows signs of nervousness and attraction around you. He might not be interested in you if he only does it to you and he shows distancing body language around you. He might also do it naturally with most people.

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There are actually a number of reasons why a guy might not ask you questions and there are a number of things that you can consider when trying to figure out why he doesn’t.

Why a guy never asks you questions

Each of the different reasons why he never asks questions will likely come with a number of clues in the way that he does it and the body language that he shows.

Below, I will mention a number of reasons why a guy might not ask you questions, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

He does like you

The reason that he does it might be that he is attracted to you but he is nervous.

It could be the case that he does want to talk to you but he is worried that he will say something that will put you off so he chooses not to ask you questions.

If this is the case then it would be more likely that he would only do it with you and that he would show different body language signs around you compared to when he is around other people.

If he is attracted to you then it would also be more likely that he would show signs of attraction around you that he doesn’t around other people.

These signs could include:

  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Asking you the most questions
  • Keeping his focus on you when multiple people are talking
  • Glancing at you a lot
  • Adjusting his appearance when he sees you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Standing closer to you than he does with other people
  • Pointing his feet at you (people often point their feet at people that they are attracted to)
  • Watching you and getting anxious when you are around other men
  • Getting defensive when other men are with you both
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you (people’s pupils will often become more dilated when looking at someone that they are attracted to)

There are many more signs of attraction that a guy might show around you and I have written about many more of them in this blog post.

He doesn’t think that you are into him

It might also be the case that he doesn’t think that you like him so he doesn’t ask you questions.

This would be more likely if you have not really spoken to him much in the past, you have not shown interest in him in the past and if you have not asked him many questions, in the past, yourself.

If this is the case then it could still be the case that he is attracted to you. If he is then it would be likely that he would show some signs of attraction around you.

He is not into you

It might be the case that he doesn’t ask you questions because he is not interested in you.

This would be more likely if you have shown interest in him, in the past, but he didn’t reciprocate it and if he only seems not to ask you questions and not other people as well.

If this is the reason then he might also show distancing behaviors, in his body language, when he is around you by doing things such as:

  • Pointing his feet away from you
  • Crossing his arms when she sees you
  • Avoiding eye contact
  • Giving short answers
  • Distancing himself from you
  • Only smiling at the mouth

He does it with everyone naturally

Many guys do not ask many questions to people naturally and this could be why he doesn’t ask you questions.

This would be more likely if he also doesn’t seem to ask many questions to other people and if he shows similar body language around them as he does with you.

If he doesn’t seem to ask other people questions either then it could still be the case that he is attracted to you. If he is then it would be more likely that he would show signs of attraction around you.

Consider the way that he reacts upon seeing you

When trying to understand why he doesn’t ask you questions it would help to consider the way that he reacts upon seeing you.

If he seems to change his body language, noticeably, when he sees you then it would be more likely that he has particularly good or bad feelings about you.

If he reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Adjusting his appearance
  • Adjusting his posture
  • Moving closer to you
  • Facing toward you (especially with his feet)
  • Holding eye contact

Then it would make it more likely that he is attracted to you.

Whereas, if he reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Squinting
  • Avoiding eye contact
  • Tensing his lips
  • Facing away from you (especially with the feet)
  • Distancing himself

Then it would make it more likely that he is not into you.

Consider how he interacts with other people

It would also help to compare the way that he interacts with other people with how he interacts with you.

If he seems to show the same body language around other people as he does with you then it would make it more likely that he does it naturally and that he considers you a friend.

Whereas, if he seems to show different body language around you then it would make it more likely that he has good or bad feelings about you depending on the way that he changes it.

Look for a number of body language clues

When considering what his body language could be suggesting it would help to consider multiple signs at the same time.

This is because a single body language sign will often have many different possible meanings. This can make them less reliable of their own.

Whereas, if he shows a number of body language signs and they all seem to suggest the same thing then it would make it more likely that he is showing them for that specific reason.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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