If a girl recently said that she wants to meet you then you might be wondering why and what it might mean about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you why she might want to meet you and why other girls might say that they want to meet you as well in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl wants to meet you? It would likely mean that she likes you especially if she only wants to meet you and not her other friends as well. If she also wants to meet her other friends then it would be a sign that she considers you a friend.

When considering why she wants to meet you it would be helpful to consider the way that she says it and the body language that she shows around you.

Why a girl will want to meet you

Each of the different reasons why she wants to meet you will likely come with a number of clues in her body language and in the way that she asks.

Below, I will mention a number of reasons why she will want to meet you, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She is attracted to you

The reason that she wants to meet you is likely to be that she likes you.

This would be more likely if she just wants to meet you and she didn’t say that it would be with her other friends as well and if she wants to meet you at a place where you won’t be bothered.

If she does want to meet you because she likes you then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction when she is around you.

These signs could include:

  • Brushing her hair to the side when she sees you and when she is around you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Stroking her hair while talking to you
  • Asking you lots of questions and giving you more attention than she does to other people
  • Standing closer to you than she does with other people
  • Talking to you with a higher-pitched voice than she does with other people
  • Tilting her head while talking to you
  • Laughing and looking to see if you are also laughing
  • Giggling a lot at the things that you say
  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you
  • Pointing her feet at you when she is around you
  • Glancing at you a lot and smiling or quickly looking away when you notice

She considers you her friend

The reason that she wants to meet you could be that she considers you a friend.

This would be more likely if she has been your friend for a while, if she also wants to meet her other friends and if she shows the same behavior and body language with her other friends as she does with you. It would also be more likely that she wouldn’t show many signs of attraction when she is around you.

She doesn’t want to miss out on something

The reason that she wants to meet up with you could be that she feels like she could be missing out on something if she doesn’t.

This would be more likely if you tend to hang out with the same people as she does. It would also be more likely if she asked to meet up with you after she found you that you would be doing something that she wants to be a part of such as going to a party.

She is annoyed with you

The reason that she wants to meet you could be that she is annoyed with you.

This would be more likely if you have recently had an argument with her or you might have done something that she wouldn’t like.

If she is annoyed with you then she might have shown it in her body language when you were last with her by doing things such as:

  • Crossing her arms when she saw you and when you were talking
  • Squinting when looking at you
  • Tensing her jaw when looking at you
  • Tightening her lips when you were talking
  • Avoiding talking to you
  • Giving you short answers

Consider the type of relationship you have with her

It would probably be helpful to consider the type of relationship that you have with her when trying to understand why she wants to meet you.

If she has been your friend for a while then it would make it more likely that she considers you a friend. However, she might want to meet you because she actually likes you which would be more likely if she only wants to meet you and if she shows signs of attraction when she is with you.

If she is a girl that you haven’t known for long then it would make it more likely that she wants to meet you due to being attracted to you.

Think about when and where she wants to meet you

Considering the timing and location of when and where she wants to meet you would also likely be helpful.

If she wants to meet you alone, at a place where you won’t be bothered such as at her house in the evening, then it would be much more likely that she wants to meet you because she likes you.

Whereas, if she wants to meet you with her friends during the day then it would be more likely that she wants to do it because she considers you a friend.

Consider how she reacts to seeing you

Thinking about the way that she reacts to seeing you would also likely help in determining why she wants to meet you.

If she reacts to seeing you by changing her body language and behavior, in a way that shows attraction, then it would be more likely that she wants to meet you because she likes you.

So, if she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Raising her eyebrows and smiling
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Positioning herself to be nearer to you

Then it would be more likely that she wants to meet you because she likes you.

Consider how she interacts with her other friends

It would also be helpful to compare the way that she interacts with her friends with how she interacts with you.

If she also meets up with her other friends in the same way that she wants to meet up with you and she shows the same body language around her other friends as she does with you then she probably wants to do it as a friend.

Whereas, if she shows signs of attraction around you that she doesn’t with her other friends then it would make it more likely that she wants to meet up with you because she considers you a friend.

Look for a number of clues in her body language

When considering what her body language could be suggesting it is important to consider multiple aspects of it at the same time.

Single body language signs will usually have multiple possible meanings making them difficult to accurately understand on their own.

Whereas, it would be more likely that multiple body language signs that all suggest the same thing would be there for that specific reason.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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