If a girl was recently telling you about her relationship with other guys then you might be wondering why and what it might mean about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you a number of reasons why she might have told you about her relationship with other guys and why other girls might do the same.

So, why would a girl tell you about her relationship with other guys? It could be that she is attracted to you if she only does it to you and she shows other signs of attraction around you. It could also mean that she considers you a friend if she also says similar things to her other friends as well.

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There are actually a number of reasons why she might tell you about her relationships with other guys and there are a number of things that you can consider.

Why a girl will tell you about her relationship with other guys

Each of the different reasons why a girl will tell you about her relationships with other guys will likely come with a number of clues in the way that she does it and the body language that she shows.

Below, I will mention a number of reasons why a girl will tell you about her relationships with other guys, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She is attracted to you

Telling you about her relationship with other guys could be a sign that she is attracted to you. This is because she might do it to get you to feel like other guys are pursuing her and that you need to chase her more otherwise she might start dating another guy.

This would be more likely if she only does it to you, she leaves it open to be interpreted slightly and if she shows different body language around you compared to when she is with her other friends.

If she is attracted to you then she might show signs of being attracted to you, when she is around you, such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side when she sees you and when she is around you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Standing closer to you than she does with other people
  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
  • Stroking her hair when talking to you
  • Glancing at you a lot
  • Watching you when you are around other girls
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you (people have more dilated pupils when looking at someone that they are attracted to)
  • Pointing her feet at you when she is around you (people point their feet at people that they are attracted to)

There are more signs of attraction that a girl might show you and I have written about more of them, in the past, in this blog post.

She is trying to make you jealous

The reason that she tells you about her relationships with other guys could be that she was trying to make you jealous.

Again, it would be likely that the reason she was trying to make you jealous was to get you to chase her assuming she shows signs of attraction when she is around you and she only does it to you.

She is sad

It could be the case that she was telling you about her relationships with other guys because she was feeling sad.

If this is the case then it would be more likely that she wouldn’t do it often and she might have done it when she was with her other friends.

If she was feeling sad then she might have shown signs of it by doing things such as:

  • Drooping the shoulders
  • Sniffing a lot
  • Talking with a flat pitch
  • Looking down a lot
  • Being more quiet than usual

She considers you a friend

Telling you about her relationships with other guys could be a sign that she considers you a friend.

This would be more likely if she also does it with her other friends as well and if she shows the same body language around them as she does with you.

If she does also do it with her other friends then it could still be the case that she is attracted to you. If she is then it would be likely that she would show signs of being attracted to you when she is around you that she doesn’t around other people. A good ebook that I would recommend that will teach you how to better read body language would be this one.

She does it to seem more in demand

The reason that she does it could be that she wants to make herself feel like she is more in demand.

This would be more likely if she does it regularly to other people as well and if she tells you about her relationships while you are with other people.

Consider how she reacts to seeing you

When trying to figure out why she tells you about her relationships with other guys and how she feels about you it would help to consider the way that she reacts to seeing you.

If she reacts to seeing you by showing a number of signs of attraction then it would make it more likely that she is actually attracted to you.

This means that if she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Facing towards you
  • Moving closer to you
  • Adjusting her posture

Then it would make it more likely that she is actually attracted to you.

Consider how she interacts with other people

People can show single body language signs naturally even when they are feeling normal. This is why it would help to compare the way that she interacts with you with how she interacts with other people.

If she shows the same body language around you as she does with her other friends then it would make it more likely that she considers you a friend.

Whereas, if she shows signs of attraction around you that she doesn’t with other people then it would make it more likely that she is attracted to you.

Consider multiple body language signs at the same time

When considering what her body language might be suggesting it would be helpful to consider multiple body language signs at the same time.

This is because a single body language sign can have many different possible meanings. This is why body language signs are unreliable on their own.

Whereas, if she shows a number of body language signs that all point towards the same meaning then it would make it more likely that she is showing them for that reason.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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