If a guy texts you everyday then you’re probably wondering why and what it might mean.

This post will help you understand why he would text you every day and help you understand why other guys might do it as well in the future.

So, what does it mean when a guy texts you every day? It could be that he is attracted to you especially if he only does it with you, if he wants to hang out with you and he shows signs of attraction in person. He might also do it because he enjoys talking to you, he wants validation or because he gets bored often.

Since there are a number of reasons why a guy will text you everyday it is important to consider the behavior and body language that he shows around you and the context of how he texts you everyday.

By doing so you will be able to get a better understanding of his feelings towards you and the reason that he texts you every day.

Reasons why a guy will text you every day

Each of the different reasons why a guy will text you everyday will likely come with a number of clues in his behavior and body language when he is around you in person.

Below, I will mention a number of reasons why a guy will text you every day and the body language and behavior signs that you can expect to see with them,

He’s attracted to you

The reason that he texts you every day could be that he is attracted to you.

It would be more likely to be the reason if he shows positive body language around you, he texts you later in the evening, if he texts you first and if he tends to text you things that could be considered as sexual.

With that being said, even if the text conversations that you have with him are ordinary in nature then he still might be attracted to you. If he is then it would still be likely that he would text you first.

If he does text you every day because he is attracted to you then it would be likely that he would show signs of being attracted to you in his body language and behavior when he’s with you in person.

These signs can include:

  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • His pupils become dilated when he is around you
  • Getting anxious when you are with other men your age
  • Watching you while you are with other men your age
  • Sticking around while you are with other men your age
  • Sitting or standing with a more upright posture when he sees you
  • Touching your feet with his
  • Pointing his feet at you
  • Looking at your lips
  • Uncrossing his arms when he sees you
  • Adjusting his hair or clothing when he sees you
  • Blinking more frequently
  • Asking you the most questions when in a group together
  • Keeping his focus on you when you and multiple other people are talking
  • Asking your friends about you
  • Getting defensive when other men are with you both
  • Basing his schedule around your schedule
  • Standing closer to you than he does to other people when talking to you
  • Touching you a lot and finding excuses to touch you
  • Mirroring your own body language (for example, he imitates your smile, your laugh, your facial gestures, the way you stand or your hand gestures)

He enjoys talking to you

The reason that he texts you a lot could be that he enjoys talking to you.

If that is why he tends to text you everyday then it would be likely that he would show positive body language around you by smiling, raising his eyebrows and showing his palms.

However, he would be less likely to show a number of the signs of attraction above such as pupil dilation, holding prolonged eye contact, getting anxious when you’re with other men or getting defensive when other men are around.

It would also be less likely that he would text you intimate things and your conversations would be more likely to be casual in nature. However, even if they are, he might still be attracted to you so you should consider how he interacts with you in person.

He wants validation

It could be the case that he texts you every day because he wants to get validation that he is popular.

If that is the case then it would be likely that he would also try to text other people a lot as well.

It would also be likely that he would show some signs of anxiety when he is around people by doing things such as:

  • Rubbing his arms, face, neck or legs
  • Struggling to hold eye contact
  • Talking with an upwards inflection where he goes higher-pitched towards the ends of sentences
  • Fidgeting
  • Tapping his fingers and feet
  • Wrapping his legs around his chair
  • Self-hugging

He gets bored often

The reason that he texts you every day could be that he does it when he gets bored.

If he does then it would be likely that he would only text you funny things or that he says that he is bored when texting you a lot.

It would also be likely that he would not show a number of the signs of attraction when he is with you in person as mentioned in the first section.

He is shy (he’s too nervous to ask you out)

The reason that he texts you every day could be that he is attracted to you but he is too nervous to ask you out.

If that is why he texts you everyday then it could be the case that he is hoping that you will actually be the one to ask him out or he might be hoping that you will say that you like him in some way when texting him.

If this is the reason that he texts you everyday then it would be likely that he would show numerous signs of attraction as mentioned in the first section. However, it would also be likely that he would show a number of the signs of anxiety when he is talking to you as well that was also mentioned above.

Consider what he texts you

When trying to understand how he feels about you it would be helpful to consider the type of things that he texts you.

If he often texts you things that could be considered as sexual or things that are related to you sexually such as questions about your boyfriend or the type of guy that you like then it would be more likely that he is attracted to you. It would also be more likely that he is attracted to you if he is often trying to organize meeting up with you when texting you.

If he doesn’t text you any of those things and his conversations with you tend to be non-sexual in nature then it would be more likely that he is either looking for validation socially, that he texts you when he’s bored or that he enjoys talking to you.

However, he still might be attracted to you but too nervous to show it in his conversations with you so you should consider if he gets nervous around you and if he shows signs of being attracted to you in his body language around you.

Consider when he texts you

It would also be helpful to consider the timing of when he tends to text you.

If he tends to text you every day in the evenings then it would be more likely that he is attracted to you. Whereas, if he tends to text you randomly during the day then it would be less likely but he could very well still be attracted to you even if he doesn’t text you in the evenings.

Consider who texts who first

It would also be helpful to consider who tends to text who first.

If he is the one that tends to start the conversation with you then it would be likely that he is attracted to you and you should consider what he texts you and how he interacts with you in person.

Whereas, if you are usually the one to text him first then it would be less likely that he is attracted to you. However, it might be the case that he wants you to be the one to ask him out so he might still be attracted to you.

If you both tend to text first an equal amount of time then it would be necessary for you to consider what he texts you, if he tries to organize meeting up with you and if he shows attraction when you are with him.

Consider how quickly he texts you

Another useful thing to think about is how quickly he responds to your texts. I have written in-depth about what it means when a guy responds quickly to your texts in the past here.

However, if he tends to respond to your texts quickly then it would be more likely that he is attracted to you and that he is glad that you texted him. If he shows signs of being attracted to you when he is around you and if he texts you sexual type things then it would be very likely that he is attracted to you.

If he doesn’t tend to text you quickly then it would be less likely that he is attracted to you. However, it might be the case that he does it on purpose to get you to think about him more so you should consider if he shows attraction in his interactions with you and if he tries to meet up with you in his texts.

Think about how he reacts to seeing you

When trying to understand the way that he feels about you it would be helpful to think about the way that he reacts to seeing you.

The way that he reacts to seeing you is useful to think about because if he changes his body language noticeably then it would be likely that he has good or bad feelings about you depending on how he changes it.

If he reacts to seeing you by:

  • Sitting or standing more upright
  • Uncrossing his arms and legs
  • Adjusting his hair or clothing
  • Smiling
  • Raising his eyebrows
  • Holding eye contact
  • Making space for you
  • Pointing his feet at you
  • Positioning himself to be near you
  • His pupils dilate

Then it would be much more likely that he texts you every day because he is attracted to you.

Whereas, if he reacts to seeing you by

  • Crossing his arms
  • Squinting at you
  • Tightening his eyebrows
  • Tensing his jaw
  • Pointing his feet away from you
  • Avoiding eye contact with you

Then it would be more likely that he has negative feelings towards you. However, if he texts you everyday then it would be less likely that he would show these signs.

Think about his interactions with you compared to when he is with other people

When trying to understand the way that he feels about you it would also be helpful to consider how his interactions with you are different to those with other people.

If he seems to text other people a lot and he shows the same body language around you as he does around his other friends then it would be less likely that he is attracted to you and more likely that he does it for validation or that he likes you as a friend.

Whereas, if he only texts you every day and he changes his body language when he is around you compared to when he’s with other people then it would be more likely that he is attracted to you assuming that he shows signs of it in his body language.

Consider multiple aspects of his body language

When trying to understand what his body language is suggesting it is important to look for clusters of body language signs.

This means that you should look for multiple signs that all suggest the same thing.

It’s important to do that because he might show a single body language sign for a number of different reasons. This would make it more difficult to make an accurate conclusion on why he is showing it.

Whereas, he would be more likely to show multiple body language signs that suggest the same thing for that exact reason.

Related

What does it mean when a guy texts you every day then stops? If he suddenly stops then it would suggest that he was attracted to you but he lost interest. It might be because he thinks that you don’t like him or he might have developed feelings for someone else.

What does it mean when a guy texts you every day but doesn’t ask you out? It could be that he texts you because he enjoys texting you or he does it just for social validation. However, it might also be that he is too nervous to ask you out in which case he would likely show signs of nervousness and attraction when he is around you.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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