If a guy recently sent you a song, this post will show you likely reasons why and what would make them more likely.
So, what does it mean when a guy sends you a song? Likely reasons why a guy will send you a song are that he is attracted to you, he considers you a friend or that he is trying to make you feel better.
There are a number of possible reasons why a guy will send you a song but there are some things you can consider to help figure out the main cause.
What does it mean when a guy sends you a song?
Below are likely reasons why a guy would send you a song and what would make them more likely.
He likes you
The reason why he sent you a song could be that he likes you. This would be more likely if he sent you a sexual song, he sent it at night, he often tries to get you to hang out with him when he messages you and if he behaves differently with you than he does with his other friends.
If he did send you a song because he is attracted to you, it would be likely that he would show other signs of being attracted to you such as:
- Pupil dilation when talking to you
- Pointing his feet towards you
- Talking to you more than others
- Asking your friends about you
- Maintaining a longer duration of eye contact
- Touching you often
- Mirroring your body language and behavior
- Standing at a closer proximity to you
- Giving lots of glances your way
- Speaking with a deeper voice than normal around you
- Getting anxious when you’re with other men
He considers you a friend
The cause might also be that he considers you a friend. This would be more likely if he was joking when he sent you then song, he does not text you sexual things, he does not ask things such as what you are doing tonight and if he behaves the same with you as he does with his other friends.
He was trying to make you feel better
The cause might also be that he was trying to make you feel better. This would be more likely if he sent it to you after you were talking about something that made you sad or something happened that might have made you sad.
Things to consider
Below are things to consider to help figure out the main cause.
The type of song he sent you
It would help to consider the type of song that he sent you. If he sent one with a lot of sexual connotations, it would be more likely that he sent it due to being attracted to you. Whereas, if he sent you a different type of song, it would be more likely that he was doing it as a friend or trying to make you feel better.
The way he reacts to seeing you
It would help to consider the way that he reacts upon seeing you since it can tell you a lot about what he thinks about you.
If he reacts to seeing you by noticeably changing his body language and behavior, it would be more likely that he is attracted to you.
Ways he might react to seeing you could include:
- Adjust his appearance
- Hold eye contact with you
- Move closer to you
- Adjust his posture
- Face towards you (especially with his feet)
How he interacts with other people
It would also help to compare the way he interacts with other people with how he interacts with you. If he interacts with other people the same way he interacts with you, it would make it a lot more likely that he considers you a friend. Whereas, if he noticeably changes his behavior with you, it would be more likely that he is attracted to you.
When considering what his body language might be suggesting, it would help to consider multiple signs at the same time. This is because a single body language sign can be unreliable. Whereas, multiple signs that all suggest the same thing would be a lot more reliable.
If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.