If a guy recently drunk texted you then you’re probably wondering why and what it might mean about the way that he feels about you.

This post will help you understand why he might have done it and why other guys might drunk text you in the future.

So, what does it mean when a guy drunk texts you? It would be a sign that he is attracted to you and you should consider how he interacts with you in person. It could also be that he considers you a friend or that he did it by mistake.

Since there are a number of reasons why he might have drunk texted you it would be helpful to consider the way that he did it and the way that he interacts with you in person.

Why a guy will drunk text you

Each of the different reasons why a guy will drunk text you will likely come with a number of clues in the way that he does it and in the body language that he shows you in person.

Below, I will mention a number of reasons why a guy will drunk text you, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

He is attracted to you

The reason that he drunk texted you could be that he is attracted to you and that you were on his mind when he was drunk.

This would be more likely if it was only you that he texted, if he texted you something sexual in nature and if he wanted to meet up with you when he texted you.

However, even if he texted you something random then it could still be a sign that he was showing attraction to you.

If he is attracted to you then it would be likely that he would show signs of attraction in his body language when he is around you in person.

These signs could include:

  • Standing closer to you than he does with other people
  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Pointing his feet at you when he is around you
  • Asking you more questions than he does to other people and giving you more attention
  • Adjusting his appearance when he sees you
  • Glancing at you a lot and smiling or quickly looking away when you notice
  • Getting anxious when you’re talking to other men
  • Getting defensive when other men are with you both
  • Asking your friends about you
  • Making plans based on yours

He considers you a friend

The reason that he texted you could have just been that he considers you a friend.

This would be more likely if you know of him texting his other friends, in a similar way when he gets drunk. It would also be more likely if he texted you something random that wasn’t sexual or asking to meet up with you.

If he does just consider you a friend then it would be less likely that he would show a number of the signs of attraction mentioned above. It would also be likely that he would show similar body language around you as he does with his other female friends.

He did it by mistake

It could also have been the case that he texted you by mistake.

This would be more likely if the text didn’t make any sense or if it seemed like it was meant to be for someone else.

Consider whether or not he messaged other people

When trying to understand why he drunk texted you it would be helpful to consider whether or not he drunk texted other people.

If he did then it would be more likely because he considers you a friend. It could still be the case that he finds you attractive but you would need to think about the way that he interacts with you in person.

If he only messaged you then it would be more likely that he was showing attraction to you and it would help to consider whether or not he shows signs of attraction to you in person.

Think about the way that he reacts to seeing you

Thinking about the way that he reacts to seeing you would likely help you in determining the way that he feels about you and why he drunk texted you.

If he reacts to seeing you by noticeably changing his behavior and body language in a positive way then it would be more likely that he finds you attractive.

This means that if he reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Sitting or standing more upright
  • Uncrossing his arms
  • Holding eye contact with you
  • Positioning himself to be nearer to you
  • Pointing his feet at you
  • Adjusting his appearance

Then it would be more likely that he was showing attraction to you.

Consider how he interacts with other people

It would also be helpful to compare the way that he interacts with you with how he interacts with other people.

If he tends to text you the same things as he texts other people and he shows the same body language and behavior with you as with other people then it would be more likely that he considers you a friend.

Whereas, if he tends to only message you certain things and he shows different body language and behavior around you then it would be more likely that he is attracted to you.

Think about what he drunk texted you

It would also be helpful to consider what he drunk texted you.

If he drunk texted you something random then it would make it less likely that he was showing attraction to you. However, it would still be a sign of attraction so it would help to consider what his behavior is like with you in person.

Whereas, if he wanted to meet up with you or he texted you something sex-related it would be more likely that he was showing attraction.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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