If a girl recently said that she wants to see you then you might be wondering why and what it means about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you why could have said that she wants to see you and why other girls might say it as well in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl says that she wants to see you? it would likely be a sign that she likes you especially if she only wants to see you. She might also want to see you because she considers you a friend which would be more likely if she asked to see her other friends as well.

Since there are actually a number of reasons why a girl might want to see you it is important to consider the context of how she asked to see you and the body language that she shows around you.

Why a girl will ask to see you

Each of the different reasons why a girl will ask to see you will likely come with a number of clues in the way that she asks and in the body language that she shows around you.

Below, I will mention a number of reasons why she might have asked to see you, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She likes you

The reason that she asked to see you could be that she likes you.

This would be more likely if she wants to see you alone and not with her other friends. It would also be more likely if she wants to see you somewhere where the pair of you won’t be bothered.

If she does want to see you because she likes you then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction when around you.

These signs could include:

  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Standing closer to you than she does with other people
  • Asking you lots of questions and giving you more attention than she does to other people
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Tilting her head while talking to you
  • Laughing and looking to see if you are also laughing
  • Laughing a lot at the things that you say
  • Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
  • Brushing her hair to the side when she is around you
  • Stroking her hair while talking to you

She considers you a friend

The reason that she wants to see you could be that she considers you a friend.

This would be more likely if she has been your friend for a while and if she also invited her other friends to come and see her as well. It would also be more likely if she shows the same body language with her friends as she does with you and if she doesn’t show many signs of attraction around you.

She doesn’t want to miss out on something

The reason that she wants to see you could be that she doesn’t want to miss out on socializing.

This would be more likely if she asked to see you after she found out that you would be doing something especially if it is with her other friends as well.

She is annoyed with you

The reason that she wants to see you could be that she is annoyed with you.

This would be more likely if something has recently happened that would cause her to be annoyed with you.

If she is annoyed with you then she might have shown it in her body language the last time you saw her by doing things such as:

  • Crossing her arms when talking to you and when she saw you
  • Having tight lips when you’re talking
  • Squinting when looking at you
  • Tensing her jaw when looking at you
  • Distancing herself from you
  • Giving you short answers

Consider the type of relationship that you have with her

Thinking about the type of relationship that you have with her would likely help in understanding why she wants to see you.

If she has been your friend for a while then it would make it more likely that she wants to see you because she considers you a friend or because she is annoyed with you. However, it could still be because she likes you especially if she only wants to see you and she shows signs of attraction, in her body language, when she is around you.

If you haven’t known her for very long then it would make it more likely that she wants to see you because she likes you.

Think about when and where she wants to see you

The timing and location of when and where she wants to see you would also likely be a useful thing to consider.

If she wants to see you alone later on in the evening then it would be a lot more likely that she wants to see you because she likes you.

Whereas, if she wants to see you with her friends during the day then it would be more likely that she wants to see you as a friend.

Think about how she reacts to seeing you

Thinking about the way that she reacts to seeing you would likely help you in understanding why she wants to see you.

If she reacts to seeing you by showing a number of body language signs of attraction then it would be more likely that she wants to see you because she likes you.

So, if she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Sitting or standing more upright and uncrossing her arms
  • Adjusting her appearance

Then it would be more likely that she wants to see you due to being attracted to you.

Consider how she interacts with her other friends

Thinking about how her interactions with her other friends are different to her interactions with you might also help in understanding why she wants to see you.

If she also asks to see her other friends a lot in a similar way and she shows similar body language with them as with you then it would be more likely that she wants to see you as a friend.

Whereas, if she only asks to see you and she shows signs of attraction when she is around you then it would be more likely that she wants to see you because she likes you.

Look for a cluster of signs

When considering her body language it’s important to consider multiple body language signs at a time.

This is because she could be showing a single body language sign for multiple different reasons making it unreliable.

Whereas, if she shows multiple body language signs of something such as attraction then it would be more likely that she is showing them for that reason.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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