If a girl has been telling her friends about you then you might be wondering why and what it might mean.

This post will help you understand why she might have told her friends about you and why other girls might do the same in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl tells her friends about you? It would likely be a sign that she likes you especially if her friends ask you what you think about her. It could also be that she is annoyed with you or that she doesn’t like you or she might do it because you just happened to be involved in what she is telling them about.

Since she might have told her friends about you for a number of reasons it is important to consider the body language she showed and the context of what she told them.

By doing so you will be able to get a better understanding of why she told her friends about you and the way that she feels about you.

Reasons why a girl will tell her friends about you

Each of the different reasons why a girl will tell her friends about you will likely come with a number of clues in her body language and in what she tells them.

Below I will mention a number of reasons why a girl will tell her friends about you and the clues that you can expect to see with them.

She is attracted to you

The reason that she told her friends about you could be that she is attracted to you.

This would be more likely to be the reason if she told them positive things about you and if her friends have been talking to you about her in a positive way. The reason that her friends have been talking about her in a positive way would likely be that they know that she likes you and they are trying to get you to talk to her.

If she did tell them about you because she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction around you in person.

These signs could include things such as:

  • Mirroring your own body language
  • Maintaining prolonged eye contact with you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Standing closer to you than she does with other people when talking to you
  • Asking you lots of questions when in a group together
  • Staring at you then looking away when you notice
  • Flicking her hair to the side
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Touching your feet with her feet
  • Having more dilated pupils when with you
  • Asking your friends about you
  • Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
  • Sitting more upright when she sees you
  • Uncrossing her arms when she sees you
  • Keeping her focus on you when there are multiple people talking

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She doesn’t like you

The reason that she told her friends about you could be that she actually doesn’t like you for some reason.

This would be more likely if she told your friends something negative about you, if she is mean to you in person or if you said something mean to her in the past. It would also be likely to be the case if her friends also started to treat you badly as well after she told them about you.

If she doesn’t like you then it would be likely that she would show it in her body language and behavior when around you by doing things such as:

  • Squinting at you
  • Tensing her jaw when looking at you
  • Hiding or tightening the lips when looking at you
  • Crossing the arms when she sees you
  • Pointing her feet away from you
  • Disagreeing with most things that you say
  • Clenching her fists around you

She is annoyed with you

The reason that she told her friends about you could be that she is annoyed with you for some reason.

This would be more likely to be the reason if you had both recently had an argument or if you had recently done something that would annoy her.

If she was annoyed with you then it would be likely that her friends would have spoken to you about the thing that annoyed her. They might also have started to treat you in a less positive way after she told them as well.

It would also be likely that she would show signs of being annoyed with you which could include:

  • Avoiding you
  • Pointing her feet away from you
  • Crossing her arms when she sees you
  • Tightening her lips when you’re talking
  • Squinting at you
  • Tightening her eyebrows together when she sees you
  • Giving you short answers
  • Accusing you of things

She was just talking about something that you happened to also be involved with

The reason that she told her friends about you could be that she was telling them about something that she did that also involved you.

If that was the reason then it might be the case that her friends would have asked you about what you did. It would also be likely that she would show positive body language around you assuming that she likes you as a friend but she would be less likely to show signs of attraction around you.

Think about the way that she reacts to seeing you

When trying to understand why she told her friends about you it would be helpful to consider the way that she reacts to seeing you.

If she reacts to seeing you by noticeably changing her body language and behavior then it would be a strong sign that she has good or bad feelings about you depending on the way that she changes it.

If she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Smiling
  • Raising her eyebrows
  • Having more dilated pupils
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Flicking her hair to the side
  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Holding eye contact
  • Uncrossing her arms
  • Sitting more upright

Then it would be more likely that she is attracted to you.

Whereas, if she reacts to seeing you by doing things like:

  • Squinting
  • Crossing her arms
  • Pointing her feet away from you
  • Tensing her jaw
  • Tightening her lips
  • Tightening her eyebrows together
  • Avoiding eye contact

Then it would be more likely that she is either annoyed with you or that she doesn’t like you.

Consider how she interacts with her friends

It would also be useful to compare the way that she interacts with her friends with the way that she interacts with you.

If she shows the same body language with her friends as she does when she is with you then it would be more likely that she was telling them about something that happened to involve you.

Whereas, if she shows different body language around you compared to when she is with her friends then it would be more likely that she is attracted to you or that she’s annoyed with you. The exact reason would depend on the way that she changes it around you.

Look for multiple signs in her body language

When considering her body language it would be helpful to consider multiple aspects of it at a time.

The reason for that is that a single body language sign can have many different possible meanings. This can make it difficult to understand the exact reason that she might be showing a certain body language sign.

Whereas, if she shows multiple body language signs that all suggest the same thing then it would be more likely that she is showing them for that specific reason.

Consider what her friends tell you

It would also be helpful to consider what her friends tell you.

If her friends talk about her in a positive way and they suggest that you should talk to her then it would be more likely that she talks about you because she is attracted to you. This would also be likely if her friends start to act differently when she is around as well.

Whereas, if they talk to you in a more negative way then it would be more likely that she told them something bad about you. However, if her friends are guys then it could also be that they are jealous of you.

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