If a girl has been talking to you for hours then you might be wondering why and what it might mean about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you a number of reasons why she might talk to you for hours and why other girls might do the same in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl talks to you for hours? It would likely mean that she considers you a friend especially if she also interacts with her other friends in a similar way. She might be attracted to you which would be more likely if she shows signs of attraction in person.

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There are a number of reasons why a girl might talk to you for hours and there are a number of things to consider when trying to figure out why she does it.

Why a girl will talk to you for hours

Each of the different reasons why she talks to you for hours will likely come with a number of clues in the way that she does it and the body language she shows in person.

Below, I will mention a number of reasons why a girl will talk to you for hours, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She is attracted to you

The reason that she talks to you for hours could be that she is attracted to you.

This would be more likely if she talks to her other friends in a similar way, if she shows different body language around you compared to with her friends and if she asks you questions such as if you want a girlfriend or whether or not you are single.

If she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show signs of being attracted to you when she is around you.

These signs could include:

  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Standing closer to you than she does with other people
  • Brushing her hair to the side when she is around you
  • Stroking her hair when talking to you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Laughing and looking to see if you are also laughing
  • Giggling a lot at the things that you say
  • Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
  • Pointing her feet at you (people point their feet at the person that they are attracted to)
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you (peoples pupils dilate when looking at someone that they are attracted to)

There are more signs of attraction that a girl might show you and I have written about more of them in this blog post.

She considers you a friend

The reason that she does it could be that she considers you a friend.

This would be more likely if she also talks to her friends for hours, she shows similar body language around them as she does with you and if she doesn’t ask you questions that suggest attraction.

If she does talk to her friends for hours or she doesn’t ask you questions that suggest attraction then it could still be the case that she is attracted to you. If she is then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction around you that she doesn’t around her other friends.

She’s feeling sad

The reason that she was talking to you for hours could be that she was feeling sad.

This would be more likely if she doesn’t normally talk to you for hours and if she was showing signs of being sad.

Signs of being sad could have included:

  • Talking about things that would make her feel sad
  • Talking with a flat pitch
  • Sniffing through the nose a lot
  • Drooping the shoulders

She likes talking to people

It could be the case that she was talking to you for hours because she has a very talkative personality.

This would be more likely if she was a girl that you didn’t know very well.

If she is a girl that likes talking to people a lot then it could still be the case that she was doing it because she was attracted to you and it would help to consider the body language she was showing.

Consider how she reacts to seeing you

When trying to figure out why she was talking to you for hours it would help to consider how she reacts to seeing you.

If she reacts to seeing you by noticeably changing her body language then it would make it more likely that she is attracted to you.

If she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Raising her eyebrows and smiling
  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Moving closer to you
  • Seeking eye contact

Then it would suggest that she is attracted to you.

Consider how she interacts around other people

It would also help to consider the way that she interacts with other people and how it compares to when she is with you.

If she also talks to other people for hours and she shows similar body language around them as she does with you then it would be more likely that she considers you a friend.

If she doesn’t talk to them for hours and she shows different body language around you then it would be more likely that she was showing attraction to you.

Consider what she talks to you about

It could also help to think about what she was talking to you about.

If she asked you about your relationship status, she was asking about your girlfriend, she was saying sexual things or she was asking if you want a girlfriend then it would make it more likely that she was attracted to you.

If she was talking about general things then it would make it more likely that she considers you a friend.

Look for a number of clues in her body language

When considering what her body language could have been showing it would help to consider multiple signs at the same time.

This is because a single body language sign can have many different possible meanings making single body language signs unreliable on their own.

Whereas, if she was showing multiple body language signs that all suggested the same thing then it would make it more likely that she was showing them for that reason.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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