If a girl has been talking to everyone but you then you are probably wondering why and what it might mean about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you a number of reasons why she might talk to everyone but you and why other girls might do the same in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl talks to everyone but you? It could be a sign she likes you if she only does it to you, she has no reason to dislike you and if she shows other signs of attraction around you. She might also feel like she doesn’t know you well enough, not like you, not think you like her, be annoyed with you or not want to be seen with you.

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Since there are a number of reasons why a girl might talk to everyone but you it would be helpful to consider the context of how she does it and the body language that she shows around you.

Why a girl will talk to everyone but you

Each of the different reasons why she talks to everyone but you will likely come with a number of clues in her body language and in the way that she does it.

In the following sections, I will mention a number of reasons why a girl will talk to everyone but you, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She is attracted to you

The reason that she talks to everyone but you could be that she is attracted to you.

This would be more likely if she only does it to you, she doesn’t have any reason to dislike you, when you talk to her she responds positively and if her friends talk to you about her.

The reason that not talking to you can be a sign that she likes you is that it would suggest that she gets nervous around you and that she is nervous about how you might react if she does talk to you.

If she does talk to everyone but you because she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction around you that she doesn’t with other people.

These signs could include:

  • Brushing her hair to the side when she is around you
  • Stroking her hair when you’re talking to her
  • Positioning herself to be nearer to you
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
  • Laughing and looking to see if you are also laughing
  • Giggling a lot at the things you say
  • Giggling with her friends while looking at you
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you
  • Glancing at you and quickly looking away or smiling when you notice

She is not interested in you

The reason that she talks to everyone but you could be that she is not interested in you.

This would be more likely if you used to talk to her, she stopped talking to you after you showed interest in her and if she is not very responsive to you when you talk to her.

If she isn’t interested in you then she might show other signs of it as well such as:

  • Squinting when looking at you
  • Crossing her arms when she sees you
  • Pointing her feet away from you
  • Distancing herself from you
  • Having tight lips when you’re talking
  • Giving you short answers
  • Stopping smiling when she sees you

She doesn’t feel like she knows you very well

The reason that she does it might be that she feels like she doesn’t know you well enough to consider you a friend.

This would be more likely if you haven’t known her for long and if you haven’t spoken to her in the past.

If this is the case then she still might be attracted to you. If she is then she would likely show some signs of attraction around you.

She thinks that you don’t like her

It could be the case that she doesn’t think that you like her.

This would be more likely if you have not shown any interest in her in the past, if you haven’t spoken to her in the past or if you have shown unfriendly body language towards her in the past.

If she does think that you don’t like her then it would be likely that she would distance herself from you when she is around you.

She is annoyed with you

The reason that she did it could have been that she was annoyed with you.

This would be more likely if she does normally talk to you, if she recently had an argument with you or if you did something that she might not have liked.

If she was annoyed with you then she might have shown signs of being annoyed with you by doing things such as:

  • Crossing her arms when she saw you
  • Squinting at you
  • Tensing her jaw when looking at you
  • Accusing you of things
  • Giving you short replies

She is doing it on purpose

The reason that she was talking to everyone but you might have been that she was doing it on purpose.

The reason that she might have been doing it on purpose could have been that she was attracted to you and she wanted to get you to chase her. This would be more likely if she normally talks to you and if she shows signs of attraction around you.

She didn’t want to be seen with you

The reason that she did it might have been that she didn’t want to be seen with you.

The reason that she didn’t want to be seen with you might have been that there was another guy around that she is also seeing and she didn’t want to let him see you. This would be more likely if she talks to you sometimes but she doesn’t when he is around.

Consider how she reacts to seeing you

Considering how she reacts to seeing you could help in understanding why she talks to everyone but you.

If she reacts to seeing you by changing her body language then it would make it more likely that she has good or bad feelings about you.

If she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Positioning herself to be nearer to you
  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Sitting or standing more upright and uncrossing her arms

Then it would make it more likely that she talks to everyone but you because she likes you.

Whereas, if she reacts by doing things such as:

  • Squinting
  • Avoiding eye contact
  • Crossing her arms
  • Tightening her lips
  • Not smiling any more
  • Distancing herself from you

Then it would be more likely that she talks to everyone but you because she is annoyed with you or she doesn’t like you.

Consider your relationship with her

It would also help to consider the type of relationship that you have with her.

If you haven’t known her for long then it would be more likely that she doesn’t feel like she knows you well enough. However, she could also do it because she likes you or she dislikes you so it would help to consider the body language she shows around you and how she reacts to seeing you.

If she has been your friend for a while then it would make it more likely that she was annoyed with you or she thought that you were annoyed with her.

Consider when and where it happened

The timing and location that she spoke to everyone but you at would also likely be a useful thing to consider.

If she does it regardless of the location then it would make it more likely that she either doesn’t like you, thinks you don’t like her, doesn’t consider you a friend or that she is attracted to you but nervous.

Whereas, if she only does it when certain people are around then it would be more likely that she was doing it due to one of the other people that were present.

Consider a cluster of signs

When considering what her body language was showing it would help to consider a cluster of signs at the same time.

Single body language signs can have multiple possible meanings making them unreliable on their own.

Whereas, it would be more likely that she would show a cluster of signs that all suggest the same thing for that specific reason.

Related

Why would a girl joke with everyone but me? It could be the case that she doesn’t feel like she knows you very well, she is annoyed with you, she doesn’t think you like her, she is attracted to you but nervous or that she doesn’t like you. It would help to consider previous encounters with her and what her body language is like with you.

Why does she greet everyone but me? It would be most likely that she doesn’t feel like she knows you well enough. However, she could also have been annoyed with you, thought that you didn’t like her or she might have been attracted to you but nervous.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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