If a girl randomly started talking to you recently then you might be wondering why and what it might mean about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you why she might have randomly started talking to you and why other girls might do it as well in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl randomly starts talking to you? It would be a sign that she is attracted to you but it would be necessary to see other signs of attraction to be sure. It could also be the case that she is just being friendly and she is trying to make a new friend.

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When trying to understand why she would have randomly started talking to you it would be helpful to consider the body language that she was showing and the context of how she did it.

Why a girl will randomly start talking to you

Each of the reasons why she might have randomly started talking to you will likely come with a number of clues in the way that she did it and in the body language that she showed.

Below, I will mention a number of reasons why a girl will randomly start talking to you, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She likes you

The reason that she started talking to you could be that she finds you to be attractive.

This would be more likely if she specifically came and spoke to you when she could have spoken to other people, if she did it while her friends were watching or if she did it when you were at a party.

If she did come and talk to you because she was attracted to you then it would be likely that she would have shown signs of attraction, in her body language, when she did it.

These signs could have included:

  • Brushing her hair to the side while talking to you
  • Stroking her hair while talking to you
  • Standing close to you
  • Holding prolonged eye contact with you
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you
  • Laughing and looking to see if you were also laughing
  • Laughing a lot at the things that you were saying
  • Tilting her head while talking to you
  • Talking to you with a higher-pitched voice than she does with other people

She’s trying to make a new friend

The reason that she randomly started to talk to you could have been that she was just being friendly and that she was trying to make a new friend.

This would be more likely if she also did it with other people, if she did it in an environment where people know each other such as at work or school and if she was showing the same body language with you as she was with other people. It would also be less likely that she would have shown many signs of attraction when doing it.

She is naturally friendly

It could also be the case that she has a naturally friendly personality.

If she does then it would be likely that she would also tend to randomly talk to other people as well and that she would show the same body language with other people as she does with you.

Consider when she did it

The timing and location of when and where she randomly started talking to you would likely be a useful thing to consider.

If she randomly started talking to you at the start of the school year, when people don’t know each other, then it would be more likely that she was just trying to make new friends.

If she randomly started talking to you at work then it could be the case that she was showing attraction to you but it would be equally likely that she was just being friendly. It would be necessary to consider the body language that she shows around you and if she does it with other people as well.

Consider how she interacts with other people

Comparing the way that she interacts with other people with how she interacted with you would also likely be a useful thing to consider.

If she also talks to other people a lot and she shows similar body language around other people as she did with you then it would be more likely that she was just being friendly when she did it.

Whereas, if she doesn’t tend to talk to other people, that she doesn’t know very well, and she was showing signs of attraction around you then it would be more likely that she started talking to you because she liked you.

Think about how she reacts to seeing you

Considering the way that she reacts to seeing you could also help in understanding why she started to talk to you.

If she reacts to seeing you by noticeably changing her body language in a positive way then it would be more likely that she did it because she likes you.

So, if she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Holding eye contact with you
  • Positioning herself to be nearer to you
  • Sitting or standing more upright

Then it would be more likely that she randomly started talking to you because she likes you.

Consider multiple aspects of her body language

When considering what her body language could be suggesting it would be helpful to consider multiple aspects of it at a time.

This is because a single body language sign can come with multiple different meanings. For example, playing with her hair could have been a sign of attraction but it could also have been a sign that she was nervous. This means that single body language signs on their own are not always reliable.

Whereas, if she was showing a cluster of body language signs of attraction then it would be more likely that she was showing them due to being attracted to you.

Related

What does it mean when a girl makes small talk? It could mean that she is attracted to you which would be more likely if she shows other signs of attraction. It could also be that she is just being friendly and trying to make a new friend.

Why is a girl talking to me all of a sudden? It would be a sign that she is attracted to you especially if she also shows other signs of attraction when she is around you. She might also have been trying to make a new friend or she was just being friendly.

What does it mean if a girl keeps trying to talk to me? It would be a sign that she likes you. However, she might also do it because she considers you a friend or because she talks to everyone a lot. It would help to consider the body language that she shows around you.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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