If a certain girl never asks you questions then you might be wondering why and what it might mean about the way that she feels about you.
This post will help you understand why she might never ask you questions and why other girls might do the same in the future.
So, what does it mean when a girl never asks you questions? If she is responsive to questions you ask her and she shows positive body language around you then it could be that she does like you but she is shy. If she doesn’t show positive body language then it would be more likely that she isn’t interested in you. She might also be unsure if you’re into her or annoyed with you.
Since there are a number of reasons why she might not ask you questions it would be helpful to consider the body language that she shows around you and the way that she interacts with you.
Why a girl will never ask you questions
Each of the different reasons why a girl won’t ask you questions will likely come with a number of clues in her body language and in the context of how she does it.
In the following sections, I’ll show you a number of reasons why a girl won’t ask you questions, the signs to look for and the things to consider.
She does like you
Even though she doesn’t ask you questions it could still be the case that she does like you.
It could be that she wants you to be the one that leads the conversation, she might not know what to say or she might get nervous around you.
If she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show it in her body language and behavior around you in ways such as:
- Brushing her hair to the side when she sees you
- Stroking her hair while talking to you
- Touching you a lot
- Standing closer to you, when talking with you, than she does with other people
- Holding prolonged eye contact with you
- Having dilated pupils when looking at you
- Talking to you at a higher pitch than she does with other’s
- Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
- Pointing her feet at you when you’re in the same area
- Positioning herself to be nearer to you
- Laughing and looking to see if you’re also laughing
- Giggling a lot at the things you say
- Glancing at you a lot and quickly looking away or smiling
She isn’t decided on you
The reason that she doesn’t ask you questions could be that she is not sure about you yet.
This would be more likely if she isn’t a girl that you have known for a long time. It would also be more likely that she wouldn’t show
She isn’t interested in you
The reason that she doesn’t ask you questions could be that she is not interested in you.
This would be more likely if she gives you short answers and she tends to ask her other friend’s questions a lot more.
If she isn’t interested in you then she might show it in her body language as well by doing things such as:
- Looking away from you a lot
- Pointing her feet away from you
- Crossing her arms when she sees you and when she’s with you
- Distancing herself from you
- Squinting at you
- Giving short replies
- Having tight lips when you’re talking
- Smiling only at the mouth
- Furrowing her eyebrows
- Tensing her jaw when she sees you
She isn’t sure whether or not you like her
The reason that she doesn’t ask you questions might be that she is not sure whether or not you like her.
This would be more likely if you haven’t known her for very long and if you haven’t really shown any interest in her yourself.
If she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would still show some signs of attraction when around you.
She is annoyed with you
The reason that she doesn’t ask you questions could be that she is annoyed with you.
This would be more likely if she used to ask you questions in the past but she stopped suddenly after an argument.
If she is annoyed with you then it would be likely that she would show it in her body language around you by doing things such as:
- Crossing her arms when she sees you
- Giving you short answers
- Tightening her lips when you’re talking
- Squinting at you
- Tightening her eyebrows when looking at you
Consider the way that she reacts to seeing you
When trying to understand why she doesn’t ask you questions and how she feels about you it would be helpful to consider how she reacts to seeing you.
If she reacts to seeing you by noticeably changing her body language then it would be more likely that she has good or bad feelings about you depending on how she changes it.
If she changes it by doing things such as:
- Adjusting her appearance
- Brushing her hair to the side
- Pointing her feet at you
- Positioning herself to be nearer to you
- Raising her eyebrows and smiling
- Holding eye contact
Then it would be more likely that she is attracted to you.
Whereas if she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:
- Squinting
- Crossing her arms
- Pointing her feet away from you
- Avoiding eye contact
- Tensing her jaw
Then it would be more likely that she never asks you questions due to being annoyed with you or because she isn’t interested in you.
Think about how she behaves with other people
It would also be helpful to compare the way that she behaves with other people with how she behaves with you.
If she asks other people questions a lot and her body language is more positive around them than it is around you then it would be likely that she isn’t interested in you.
Whereas, if she doesn’t seem to ask other people questions much and she tends to show signs of attraction around you then she could still be attracted to you.
Consider multiple aspects of her body language
When considering her body language it would be helpful to consider multiple aspects of it at a time.
This is because a single body language sign could have been there for a number of different reasons. This can make it unreliable to consider single body language signs.
Whereas, it would be more likely that she would have been showing a cluster of body language signs that suggested the same thing for that reason.
Related
What does it mean if she never keeps the conversation going? It could be that she is interested in you but she is shy, doesn’t know what to say or she wants you to lead the conversation. This would be more likely if she shows signs of attraction around you. She might also not be interested in you especially if she shows distancing behaviors.
Why doesn’t she ask me questions about myself? She might consider your relationship to be more on the formal side if you only see her in formal settings. She might not be interested in you especially if she shows distancing behaviors. If you don’t ask her questions about herself then it would also be less likely that she would ask you questions about yourself.
If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.
