If a girl recently drunk texted you then you might be wondering why she did it and what it means about the way that she feels about you.

In this post, I will show you a number of reasons why she might have drunk texted you and why other girls might drunk text you as well in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl drunk texts you? It would likely mean that she is attracted to you and you should consider whether or not she shows signs of attraction in person. She might also have done it because she considers you a friend or that she did it by mistake.

Since she might have drunk texted you for different reasons it would be helpful to consider the way that she interacts with you when she is with you and the way that she texted you.

She is attracted to you

Drunk texting is often a sign of attraction from both men and women.

The reason that she drunk texted you could be that she secretly is attracted to you. This would be more likely if she texted you something sexual in nature or if she wanted to hang out with you at the time. However, even if she texted you something random it still could have been a sign of attraction.

If she did drunk text you because she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show signs of attraction when she is around you.

These signs could include:

  • Touching you a lot and touching you more than she touches other people
  • Standing closer to you, when talking to you, than she stands to other people
  • Holding eye contact with you for longer than normal
  • Having dilated pupils while looking at you
  • Flicking her hair to the side when she sees you or when she is with you
  • Stroking her hair while talking to you
  • Tilting her head to the side while talking to you
  • Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
  • Mirroring your body language
  • Talking to you with a higher-pitched voice than she does with other people
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Touching your feet with her feet
  • Giggling with her friends when looking at you
  • Watching you when you are with other women
  • Laughing and looking to see if you’re laughing
  • Asking you more questions than she asks other people in the group

She considers you a friend

The reason that she drunk texted you could be that she considers you a close friend and you came to her mind when she was drunk.

If that is the case then it would be likely that she has been your friend for a while and it would be likely that she would show similar body language around you as she shows around her other friends.

The body language that she shows you would likely be positive but she would be less likely to show many signs of attraction when she is around you.

She did it by mistake

It might be the case that she actually intended to text someone else but she texted you by mistake.

This would be more likely if the text didn’t make any sense or if it read like it was meant for someone else.

Consider whether or not she messaged other people

When trying to understand why she drunk texted you it would be helpful to consider whether or not she drunk texted other people as well.

If she drunk texted other people then it would be less likely that she was texting you because she is attracted to you and more likely that she did it because she thinks of you as a friend.

If she only texted you then it would be more likely that she did it because she is attracted to you.

Think about the way that she reacts to seeing you

When trying to understand why she drunk texted you and the way that she feels about you it would be helpful to consider the way that she reacts to seeing you.

If she reacts to seeing you by noticeably changing her body language in a way that she doesn’t do when she sees her other friends then it would be more likely that she is attracted to you. That is assuming she shows signs of attraction in the way that she changes it.

If she is attracted to you then possible ways that she would change her body language when she sees you could include:

  • Brushing her hair to the side
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Having more dilated pupils
  • Staring at you
  • Adjusting her appearance

Think about your relationship with her

It would also be helpful to think about the type of relationship that you have with her.

If you have been friends with her for a long time then it would be more likely that she texted you because you were on her mind as a friend. However, she still might have done it due to attraction if she shows attraction around you in person.

Whereas, if you haven’t known her for long then it would be more likely that she did it due to being attracted to you.

Think about the way that she interacts with other people

When considering why she drunk texted you it would help to compare the way that she interacts with you with how she interacts with other people.

If she shows the same body language around you as she shows around her friends then it would be more likely that she considers you a friend. However, it could still be the case that she is attracted to you and that she only shows more subtle signs that she is attracted to you around you.

Whereas, if she shows different body language signs around you compared to with her other friends then it would be more likely that she is attracted to you if she changes it in a way that shows attraction.

Consider what she drunk texted you

It would also be helpful to consider what she actually texted you.

If she texted you something more sexual in nature or she wanted to meet up with you then it would be more likely that she was attracted to you.

Whereas, if she texted you something different or it didn’t really make sense then it could be the case that she did it because she considers you a friend or she wanted to send it to someone else. With that being said, it could still be the case that she sent it due to being attracted to you which is why it would be helpful to consider how she interacts with you in person.

Related

Why is it that she only contacts me when she is drunk? It could be the case that she is attracted to you but she is normally too shy to show it. If that is the case then it would be likely that she shows attraction when she is around you in person. It could also be the case that she has a habit of randomly texting people when she is drunk which would be more likely if you know that she texts other people as well.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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