If a girl recently called you weird then you might be wondering why and what it means about the way that she feels about you.

This post will show you a number of reasons she might have said it and why other girls might say it in the future.

So, what does it mean when a girl calls you weird? It would depend largely on the tone that she says it with. If she said it with a mean tone it would likely have been more of a rejection or that she was showing that she doesn’t like you. Whereas, if she said it more playfully it would be more likely that she was joking.

Since there are a number of reasons why she could have called you weird it would be helpful to consider the context of how she said it and the body language that she was showing.

Reasons why a girl will call you weird

Each of the different reasons why she might have called you weird will likely come with a number of clues in the way that she said it and the body language that she showed.

Below, I’ll show you a number of reasons that a girl will call you weird, the signs to look for and the things to consider.

She is actually attracted to you

She could have called you weird even though she is actually attracted to you.

This would be more likely if she said it in a joking way, if she said it while play hitting you and if she shows positive body language around you.

If she is attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show it in her body language and behavior when she is around you by doing things such as:

  • Holding prolonged eye contact
  • Having dilated pupils when looking at you
  • Touching you a lot
  • Standing closer to you, when speaking to you, than she does with other people
  • Pointing her feet at you when she is around you
  • Brushing her hair to the side while she is around you
  • Stroking her hair while talking to you
  • Laughing and looking to see if you are also laughing
  • Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
  • Glancing at you a lot and smiling or quickly looking away when you notice
  • Tilting her head while talking to you

She was being mean

The reason that she called you weird could be that she was being disrespectful.

This would be more likely if she said it to you with a harsher tone and if she said it to you in front of other people.

If she was being mean to you then she might have shown other signs of it by doing things such as:

  • Squinting at you
  • Tensing her jaw when looking at you
  • Interrupting you
  • Disagreeing with you a lot
  • Tightening her eyebrows when looking at you

You have different personalities

It could be the case that she called you weird because you both have different personalities.

This would be more likely if you both tend to hang out with different people and it would be likely that you both behave in different ways.

If you do have different personalities she still might have said it because she was attracted to you or she was being mean so it would help to consider the body language she showed and the way she said it.

Think about how she reacts to seeing you

It would likely be helpful to consider the way that she reacts to seeing you when trying to understand why she called you weird.

If she reacts to seeing you then it would be more likely that she has good or bad feelings about you.

If she reacts to seeing you by doing things like:

  • Sitting or standing more upright
  • Adjusting her appearance
  • Pointing her feet at you
  • Positioning herself to be nearer to you
  • Brushing her hair to the side

Then it would be more likely that she has positive feelings about you and that she is attracted to you.

Whereas, if she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

  • Squinting
  • Tightening her jaw
  • Tightening her lips
  • Furrowing her eyebrows
  • Crossing her arms

Then it would be more likely that she has negative feelings about you and that she called you weird because she was being disrespectful.

Think about when and where she called you weird

The timing and the location of where she called you weird would probably be a useful consideration to make.

If she called you weird when you were alone together then it would be more likely that she was being playful when she did it.

Whereas, if she called you weird when you were in front of other people then it would be more likely that she said it because she was being disrespectful.

Think about how she behaves with other people

It would also be helpful to consider the type of body language and behavior that she shows around other people.

If she also says similar things to other people and she shows the same body language and behavior around them as with you then it would be more likely that she called you weird due to her personality.

Whereas, if she doesn’t say it to other people and she shows the same body language and behavior around other people as she does with you then it would be more likely that she was showing attraction or she was being disrespectful.

Look for multiple signs

When considering what her body language could have been suggesting it would be helpful to look for a cluster of signs that all suggest the same thing.

She might have shown a single body language sign for a number of different reasons. This makes it difficult to accurately understand single body language signs.

Whereas, if she was showing a cluster of body language signs that all suggested the same thing then it would be more likely that she was showing them for that reason.

Think about the type of relationship that you have with her

The type of relationship that you have with her would also be a useful thing to consider.

If you have been her friend for a while then it would be less likely that she was being mean when she said it.

Whereas, if it was a girl that you didn’t know very well then she could have said it for any of the reasons mentioned above. It would be helpful to consider the way that she said it, the body language that she was showing and when and where she said it.

If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.

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