If a girl recently blew you a kiss then you might be wondering why and what it means about the way that she feels about you.
This post will help you understand why she blew you a kiss and why other girls might do it as well in the future.
So, what does it mean when a girl blows you a kiss? It would likely be a sign that she likes you especially if she only did it to you and she shows signs of attraction when she is around you. It could also be the case that she was being friendly, showing that she cares about you or that she was trying to reassure you.
Since she might have blown you a kiss for a number of different reasons it would be helpful to consider the body language she was showing and the context of how she did it.
Why a girl will blow you a kiss
Each of the different reasons why a girl will blow you a kiss will likely come with a number of clues in the way that she does it and the body language that she shows.
In the following sections, I’ll show you a number of reasons why a girl will blow you a kiss, the signs to look for and the things to consider.
She likes you
The reason that she blew you a kiss could be that she is attracted to you.
This would be more likely if she is a similar age as you, she only did it to you and if she shows positive body language signs around you that she doesn’t show around her other friends.
If she did blow you a kiss due to being attracted to you then it would be likely that she would show signs of being attracted to you in her behavior and body language when she is around you.
These signs could include:
- Brushing her hair to the side when she sees you
- Stroking her hair while talking to you
- Standing nearer to you, when talking to you, than she does with her other friend’s
- Holding prolonged eye contact with you
- Having dilated pupils when looking at you
- Adjusting her appearance when she sees you
- Pointing her feet at you
- Touching you a lot
- Touching your feet with her feet
- Laughing and looking to see if you are also laughing
- Giggling a lot at the things that you say
- Sitting or standing more upright when she sees you
- Asking your friends about you
- Glancing at you a lot and smiling or quickly looking away if you notice
She considers you a friend
It could be the case that she blew you a kiss because she considers you a friend and she was just being friendly.
If that is the case then it would be likely that she would do similar things with her other friends and that she would show similar body language around them as she does with you. It would also be less likely that she would show signs of attraction when around you.
She was trying to reassure you
If you were sad at the time then she might have blown you a kiss because she was trying to make you feel better.
This would be more likely if you were showing signs of being sad at the time such as by slouching your shoulders, talking less than usual, talking with a flat speech tone or having watery eyes. She might also have done other things to reassure you such as to rub your back or tell you consoling words.
She is showing her love
It could be the case that she blew you a kiss because she was trying to show you that she cares about you.
This would be more likely if she is a family member or if she has been your friend for a long time.
Consider the way that she reacts to seeing you
When trying to understand why she blew you a kiss and the way that she feels about you it would help to consider how she reacts to seeing you.
If she changes her body language, when she sees you, then it would be a strong sign that she has feelings for you.
If she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:
- Adjusting her appearance
- Positioning herself to be nearer to you
- Raising her eyebrows and smiling
- Brushing her hair to the side
- Holding eye contact
- Pointing her feet at you
Then it would be more likely that she blew you a kiss due to being attracted to you.
Think about how she interacts with others
Comparing the way that she interacts with others with how she interacts with you would probably help you in understanding why she blew you a kiss.
If she also does similar things with other people and she shows the same body language and behavior with them as with you then it would be more likely that she was being friendly when she did it to you.
Whereas, if she only did it with you and she shows different body language around you then it would be more likely that she is attracted to you.
Consider the type of relationship that you have with her
It would also be helpful to consider the type of relationship that you have with her when trying to understand why she blew you a kiss.
If she is a girl that you haven’t known for long then it would be more likely that she was showing attraction to you when she blew you a kiss.
Whereas, if she is a girl that you have been friends with for a while then she might have been showing attraction but she might also have done it for one of the other reasons mentioned above. It would be necessary to consider the body language she shows around you and to compare it with how she is with her other friends to understand why she did it.
Look for multiple clues in her body language
When trying to understand why she blew you a kiss it would also be helpful to consider multiple aspects of her body language at a time.
She could have been showing a single body language sign for many different reasons. This can make it difficult to accurately understand the meaning of single body language signs.
Whereas, it would be more likely that she was showing a cluster of body language signs that all suggest the same thing for that specific reason.
If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.