If you think that a girl is jealous of you then you might be wondering what signs she will show if she is.
This post will help you figure out whether or not she is being jealous of you and whether or not other girls are in the future.
So, what are some signs that a girl is jealous? The main sign that a girl will show if she is jealous is control. She will try to control the places you go to, the people that you see and the things that you do.
There are actually a number of things that a girl will do if she is jealous and there are a number of different things that you can consider.
Signs that a girl is jealous of you
Below, I will mention a number of ways that a girl might show that she is jealous of you, the body language signs to look for and the things to consider.
She gets anxious when you are talking to other girls
If a girl is jealous of you then it would be likely that she would show signs of it when you are around other girls.
One of the things that a girl will do, if she is jealous, when you are around other girls is get anxious.
Sings that she is anxious can include:
- Watching you or constantly glancing at you when you are around other girls
- Sticking around when you are with other girls
- Rubbing her face, arms, neck or legs
- Tapping her fingers and feet
- Having a dry mouth or coughing
If it is a girl that you are not dating then getting anxious when you are around other girls would actually be more of a sign that she likes you.
Another thing that a jealous girl might do when you are around other girls is to get annoyed with you and/or the other girls.
Signs that she is annoyed can include:
- Squinting at you or the other girl
- Tensing the jaw
- Furrowing the eyebrows
- Tightening or withdrawing her lips
- Giving short answers
- Having an aggressive tone
She will also try to discredit the other girls by saying things related to their appearance or things that make them seem less valuable in some way.
She accuses you of things
A common thing that a girl will do when she is jealous is to make accusations at you.
Ways that she could make accusations at you can include saying things such as:
- That you have been cheating
- That you have been lying
- That you are going to cheat
- That you were somewhere that you were not
Making accusations at you is a sign that she is jealous because it suggests that feels insecure about the relationship.
She tries to control what you do
A girl that is jealous will often try to control the things that you do. This is because she will not feel like she can trust you so she tries to limit your ability to do things that she doesn’t like.
Ways that she might try to control you could include:
- Trying to stop you from going out with your friends
- Asking to see your phone
- Wanting to know your passwords
- Getting you to tell her where you are going
She wants to know what you have been doing
If a girl wants to know what you have been doing all the time then it would be a sign that she is jealous of you. This is because it suggests that she thinks that you have been cheating on her.
She would also ask you questions about who you were with and where you where.
If she only does it once then it wouldn’t necessarily be a strong sign that she is jealous since it could be the case that she is just making conversation. That is unless she asks it with an accusatory tone and while showing signs of being annoyed with you.
She makes it apparent that she is with you in public
If a girl is jealous of you then she will often make it apparent that she is with you when in public together.
This is because it suggests that she is distrustful of you and she does not want you to be around other girls. It also suggests that she is trying to control the people that you see.
She mentions other guys hitting on her
Another thing that a girl will do when she is jealous is she will mention other guys hitting on her.
Telling you about other guys hitting on her would suggest that she wants to make herself seem more in demand and to give you feelings of anxiety that she might leave herself. I have written more about what it means when a girl mentions other guys hitting on her in the past here.
She flirts with other guys in front of you
A girl that is jealous might also flirt with other guys in front of you. She might do this to show you how it feels when you are around other girls, to make you feel jealous yourself and to make you feel anxious that she might cheat on you.
Getting annoyed or indifferent around you
If a girl is jealous of you then she might get randomly annoyed or indifferent around you. This would suggest that she is jealous because it suggests that she thinks that you have been cheating on her especially if she also accuses you of things or asks where you have been as well.
Consider what she does when she notices you
When trying to figure out whether or not a girl is jealous of you it would help to consider the way that she reacts to seeing you.
If she reacts to seeing you by showing a number of signs of being jealous by doing things such as:
- Squinting at you
- Having tight lips
- Accusing you of things
- Asking you where you have been
Then it would be a strong sign that she is jealous of you.
Consider multiple aspects of her body language
When considering what her body language could be suggesting it would be best to look for multiple signs at the same time.
This is because a single body language sign can have multiple different meanings making a body language sign unreliable on its own. Whereas, if she were to show multiple body language signs of something then it would be more likely that she is showing them for that reason.
If you want to learn more about body language, a book I would recommend would be The Definitive Book of Body Language (on Amazon). It shows you how to interpret body language and understand people's true intentions.