How to tell if a girl finds you attractive (34 signs)

If you are wondering whether or not a certain girl likes you then you probably will want to know what signs to look for to see whether or not she finds you attractive.

This post will show you 34 body language signs that you can look for to see whether or not a girl finds you attractive.

She points her feet at you

The feet will actually tell you a lot about what a person is thinking and feeling like.

People learn ways to control and to hide their emotions on their faces but they rarely think about what their feet might be suggesting.

People will often point their feet towards the person that they are most interested in. If you notice that a girl tends to point her feet towards you then it would suggest that she is interested in you.

She brushes her hair to the side

Girls will often brush their hair to the side when they notice a guy that they are attracted to, when they make eye contact with them and why they are talking to them.

If you notice that a girl tends to brush her hair to the side when she is around you then it would be a strong sign that she is attracted to you.

This is because brushing the hair to the side exposes the neck which is a sign of vulnerability which is a submissive behavior which is often a sign of attraction in women.

She tilts her head

Another way that a woman might show a sign of vulnerability would be by tilting her head to the side while she is talking to you.

If you notice that a girl tends to tilt her head to the side when talking to you then it would be a strong sign of attraction.

If she brushes her hair to the side, tilts her head and talks with a higher voice when doing it then it would be an especially strong sign of attraction.

She strokes her hair

If a girl strokes her hair while talking to you then it would also be a sign that she is attracted to you.

The reason that stroking the hair is a sign of attraction in women is that it suggests that she is feeling slightly anxious, it releases pheromones and it highlights healthy hair.

She mirrors your body language

If a girl mirrors your body language then it will also, often, be a sign of attraction.

When a girl is attracted to you she will often, subconsciously, mirror your body language. This is because it will evolutionarily improve her chances of being accepted by you.

Mirroring your body language can also be a sign that she considers you a part of her friendship group. It would help to consider in what way she mirrors your body language and if she also mirrors other people in your group in the same way.

Ways that she might mirror you include:

• Saying similar things as you
• Repeating what you say
• Standing like you do
• Making the same hand gestures as you
• Making the same facial gestures as you
• Smiling like you do

She shows you her palms

Another way that a girl might show vulnerability is by showing the palms. If you notice that a girl tends to show her palms around you then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

It could also be a sign that she considers you a friend so it would also be helpful to consider other body language signs that she shows around you.

Her pupils dilate

When a person is looking at another person that they find attractive it will actually cause their pupils to dilate.

If you notice that a girl tends to have very dilated pupils, when she is looking at you, then it would suggest that she is attracted to you.

She holds prolonged eye contact

When a couple is developing feelings for each other they will begin to hold eye contact for longer than usual. This is because holding prolonged eye contact releases the love chemical oxytocin.

If you notice that a girl tends to hold prolonged eye contact with you then it would suggest that she is attracted to you. This would be especially the case if she also has dilated pupils when holding eye contact with you.

She touches you a lot

Another thing that a girl will often do, when she is attracted to you, is touch you a lot.

A common way that a girl will touch a guy that she is attracted to is by touching him on the arm when talking to him. It would be especially likely that she touches you because she is attracted to you if she does it repeatedly and if she makes excuses to touch you.

She stands closer to you than she does with other people

If a girl is attracted to you then she will likely want to be nearer to you.

If you notice that she tends to stand closer to you than she does with other people then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

She talks to you with a higher-pitched voice

Studies have shown that women will talk to men that they are attracted to with a higher-pitched voice than when they are talking to men that they are not attracted to.

If you notice that a girl tends to talk to you with a higher-pitched voice, than she does with other people, then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

She touches your feet with hers

As mentioned above, the feet will tell you a lot about how a person feels.

If you notice that a girl tends to touch your feet with hers a lot then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you. This would be especially likely if she does it more than once and if she does it with more of a rubbing motion.

She raises her eyebrows and smiles at you

Gestures that go against gravity will usually be a positive sign.

If you notice that a girl tends to raise her eyebrows and smile, when she notices you, then it would be a sign that she either considers you a friend or she is attracted to you. It would help to consider other things that she does when she notices you to get a better idea of whether or not she is attracted to you. For example, if she raises her eyebrows and smiles and she brushes her hair to the side then it would be a strong sign of attraction.

She quickly looks away

If you make eye contact with a girl and she quickly looks away then it can be a sign of attraction.

This is because it suggests that she was checking you out and you noticed her doing so.

She glances at you multiple times

If you notice that a girl glances at you multiple times then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

This would be especially likely if she also quickly looks away or smiles when you notice.

Often, girls will look at guys from the sides of their eyes, so if you notice her glancing at you from the sides of her eyes multiple times then it would also be a sign that she is attracted to you.

She adjusts her appearance when she sees you

If a girl is attracted to you then she will likely want to look good herself in front of you so that you will be more likely to like her.

Ways that a girl might adjust her appearance could be by adjusting her lipstick, hair or she might take off her coat.

She sits or stands more upright and uncrosses her arms when she sees you

If a girl uncrosses her arms and adjusts her posture when she sees you then it would also be a sign that she is attracted to you.

This is because it would suggest that she wants to come across as being more inviting and to encourage you to approach her.

It would be especially likely that she is attracted to you if she uncrosses her arms and posture and she brushes her hair to the side or adjusts her appearance as well.

She positions herself to be nearer to you

If a girl is attracted to you then she will likely want to be around you more.

If you notice that she, gradually, positions herself to be nearer to you then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you. This would be especially likely if she chooses to sit or stand somewhere that she normally wouldn’t.

She gets anxious when you’re talking to other girls

If a girl is attracted to you then she would likely show signs of being anxious when you are around other girls. This is because she would be nervous that you would like them more than her.

Signs of being anxious could include:

• Watching you when you are with other girls
• Sticking around when you are with other girls
• Rubbing her face, arms, neck or legs
• Tapping her fingers or feet
• Wringing the hands
• Having a dry mouth or coughing

She giggles with her friends when looking at you

Girls will often giggle with their friends when they notice a guy that they like. This will often make the guy feel slightly self-conscious. However, if you notice that a girl giggles with her friends when she notices you then it would be a sign that she likes you.

She laughs and looks to see if you are also laughing

Another thing that a girl will do when she is around a guy that she is attracted to is she will look at him when laughing to see if he is also laughing. If you notice a girl doing this with you then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you.

This is because looking at you when laughing suggests that she wants to show that she is interested in the same things that you are.

It has also been shown that both sexes will initiate humor when around a person that they are attracted to. This means that, if you notice that a girl tends to make more jokes around you then it would be another sign that she likes you.

She asks you the most questions

Another way that a girl might show that she is especially interested in you is by asking you the most questions when in a group together.

This is because it would suggest that she wants to build rapport with you.

She gives you the most attention

It would also be a sign that she likes you if she gives you the most attention when you are in a group together.

This means that if she does things such as keep her focus on you when other people are talking or look to see what your opinion is on things then it would suggest that she likes you.

She doesn’t show negative signs

One way to tell whether or not a girl is interested in you would be to consider whether or not she shows many negative body language signs around you.

She could show negative body language signs by doing things such as:

• Squinting when she sees you
• Pointing her feet away from you
• Avoiding you
• Avoiding eye contact
• Tightening the lips around you
• Smiling with a closed mouth

She tells her friends about you

Another thing that a girl will often do when she likes a guy is she will tell her friends about him.

If a girl tells her friends about you or her friends ask you what you think about her and they mention that she is single then it would suggest that she is attracted to you.

She teases you a lot

Girls will often tease guys that they are attracted to. If a girl teases you more than she does to other people then it would suggest that she is attracted to you.

She stops using her phone around you

If you notice that she tends to stop using her phone when she is around you then it would be a sign that she is interested in you.

This is because it shows that she wants to talk to you more and that she doesn’t want to give you the impression that she is not interested in talking to you.

She watches you when you leave

If a girl is attracted to you then it is likely that she will want to be around you more. It will also be likely that she will get disappointed when you are not around.

If you notice that a girl tends to watch you when you leave then it would be a sign that she is attracted to you. This would be especially likely if she shows signs of getting anxious when you leave and if she shows other signs of attraction when you are around her.

She leans in towards you

People will often lean in towards people that they are interested in. If you notice that a girl tends to lean in towards you, when talking to you or when sitting with you then it would be a sign that she likes you.

This would be especially likely if she also stands closer to you than she does with other people and if she leans in closer to you when you lean in towards her.

She shows genuine smiles around you

The way that a person smiles can tell you a lot about how a person feels about you.

If a girl shows genuine smiles to you where she squints besides the eyes and she opens the mouth then it would suggest that she either likes you as a friend or that she is attracted to you.

To figure out which it would help to consider whether or not she shows other signs of attraction towards you and if she tends to smile and laugh the most with you (which would be a sign that she is attracted to you).

She looks at your lips occasionally

If a girl looks down at your lips, occasionally, when talking to you, then it would be a sign that she wants to kiss you. If she looks at them multiple times and if she stares at them for a moment then it would make it even more likely that she is thinking of kissing you.

Additionally, it would especially be the case if she also holds prolonged eye contact with you, has dilated pupils and if she stands closer to you than she does with other people.

She hugs you the longest

Considering the way that a girl hugs you and how it compares to how she hugs other guys could help you in figuring out whether or not she likes you.

If a girl hugs you longer than she hugs other guys, she hugs you more than she hugs other guys and if she hugs you around the waist or in a different way than she hugs other guys then it would be a sign that she likes you.

Consider the way that she reacts to seeing you

When trying to figure out whether or not a girl is attracted to you it would help to consider the way that she reacts to seeing you.

If she reacts to seeing you by noticeably changing her body language in a positive way then it would make it a lot more likely that she is attracted to you.

This means that if she reacts to seeing you by doing things such as:

• Raising her eyebrows
• Seeking eye contact with you
• Positioning herself to be closer to you
• Adjusting her appearance
• Brushing her hair to the side

Then it would make it more likely that she is attracted to you.

Consider how she interacts with other people

It would also be helpful to compare the way that she interacts with other people with how she interacts with you.

It could be the case that she naturally shows signs of attraction around other people as well. If she does then it wouldn’t be such a strong sign of attraction if she shows them around you.

Whereas, if she shows multiple signs of attraction around you, that she doesn’t with other people, then it would make it more likely that she is attracted to you.

Consider multiple aspects of her body language

When considering what her body language could be suggesting it would also help to consider multiple aspects of it at the same time.

Single body language signs will often have multiple different meanings. This means that if she shows a single body language sign of attraction, around you, then it would not usually be very reliable.

Whereas, if she shows multiple body language signs of attraction around you then it would make it more likely that she is attracted to you.